Do you think you can fall in love with a girl even if you're not a lesbian?

Romania
September 6, 2010 3:32pm CST
Is it posible to fall in love with a girl and end up spending your lives together even if you're not gay?
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srganesh
@srganesh (6340)
• India
7 Sep 10
The question is very vague. If one is not a gay, he usually settles with a girl and like to live forever with her. What can be a problem in this relationship, you expect? Are you asking whether a homosexual can have a heterosexual relationship too? Then they are termed bisexuals.
srganesh
@srganesh (6340)
• India
7 Sep 10
If you fall in love with a girl, then you will be a lesbian too. But you can limit yourself to be a good friend with a smart and cute girl as you have described. When you exceed that limit to have physical relationship then you are no more straight. By the way, the other straight girl's consent is also involved here.
Julliah1985
@Julliah1985 (36)
• Romania
7 Sep 10
I appreciate your response, but I tend to argue about that. I think I could be able to love a girl and have a relationship with her even though I'm not a lesbian nor have lesbian tendencies. Probably there won't be lust, but I can appreciate a great body. I'm just saying, this is what I feel right now. I'm not saying there's 100% chance for that to happen. I also might be chickening out if the possibility occur.
inedible
@inedible (768)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
Yes, by not being a girl yourself. When a guy likes a girl, that's not lesbian at all. But if a girl loves another girl in that special way, she is, by definition, a lesbian. So no.
Julliah1985
@Julliah1985 (36)
• Romania
7 Sep 10
Thank you for your opinion inedible
Professor2010
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
7 Sep 10
Hello welcome to mylot Relation between a male and a girl is 100% natural , but relation between girls and guys too are getting common these days.. Thanks for this discussion. God bless you friend, cheers. Professor. .