Have you ever had your heart broken?
By vhienne
@vhienne (20)
Philippines
September 7, 2010 8:02am CST
My cousin visit me once crying and telling her sad story about her boyfriend. She had a broken heart with the same guy four times but the lesson she learned was that, he is never gonna change but she is. So she need to live with the memories but create new ones even though she know he will be with someone else and they will be holding me and in my mind she still have the memory of him. But I told her that sometimes it's hard to dwell on the past, but you can't force yourself to move on because you're still very much in love with the guy who stole your heart. How about you out there have you undergone a broken heart, share it to us?
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6 responses
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
7 Sep 10
Almost everyone can think of a time in their lives when they had their heart broken. it's not something that is always easy for us to admit to. it can be a painful memory to bear. The first heart break is seems to be the one we remember the most. I remember mine like it was yesterday. i was in second grade. there was a boy that had all my affection. i saw him kiss a girl on the playground. i thought it was the end of my world. Sometimes i still think of that boy. If he hadn't kissed that girl and broken my heart, where would we be today?
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
well yes i have. it was sad but you cannot let one thing hinder you from living your life from its whole potential.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
7 Sep 10
Yes once time.. when i proposed a girl and she rejected my proposal.. then i feel broken heart.. because i loved her deeply from my heart.. but she didn't understands my feelings.. and rejected my proposal.. this was happen 2 years before.. but i never forget her.. and till last day of my life.. i loved her truly..
@vhienne (20)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
Sometimes it is really hard for us to forget if we love the person so much, even if we are hurt deeply inside still we continue to love them, but love made miracles and make wonders so stick to that process. If it's still does not work out for you I think it's a sign that forget about the past and put your foot forward for the future. Somebody is waiting just right for you out there. Good luck!
@ysxjjiang (5)
• China
8 Sep 10
Of course I had when my first relationship was over. I was really sad when she left me. But everything was fine after 6 months.
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7 Sep 10
im marilyn.. viene.i read your story it was sad really coz it happens to me.i am 39 now i separated for almost 11 years.i really love my husband coz until now i want him to come back with me.eventhough i met a man that he loves me but really i dont love him like the way i love my husband.thats why i didnt marry im hoping one day he will come back to us..i have one son now his 14 yrs old...but tell your cuzin be strong always.
@vhienne (20)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
I'm really sad with your story, but my advice is go on with your life now, past is past. What if you love your husband so much but he does not love you anymore. Sometimes it is hard to give everything to someone when they are not important to you. I am not accusing your husband of not loving you because I don't know your story, but anyway whatever it is I know you will always treasure the love you have with your husband since you have your son with you. Good luck and be happy. Life is good!