My boyfriend's clinging Ex!!! Help...
By turist1
@turist1 (175)
Bulgaria
September 7, 2010 8:25am CST
I know that they are still friends and coworkers, but does that means she has to be always around my boyfriend. Every time I come around she would stop talking and would give me that nasty look "He'll be always mine".
I talked with my boyfriend about this matter but he's just too nice to tell her to go... yep you know what I'm talking about.
I don't know how to deal with her. She's just too impudent and thick-skinned. He didn't dump her because of me, he dumped her because she was always lying and manipulating.
I'm taking any advices...
4 responses
@kylesmiles (1910)
• United States
7 Sep 10
Since he KNOWS this bothers you, I can't understand why he won't avoid her!
I say, take the high road and be NICE to her! SMILE at her! It will make her feel even more jealous! Don't let her bother you. She's doing what she's doing cause she knows it bothers you! Good luck.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
7 Sep 10
That is a good insight kyesmiles....Yes is sounds like she knows it gets a rise or a reaction so she will keep doing it...
@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
8 Sep 10
I'm always nice with her. I smile and greet her. When I see she's troubled I help her and thats what makes her even more angry at me. She knows I'm better for him than her. She is trying to make me lose my temper, which is hard to do.
I'm not the type that will throw a fit for just anything, but when I'm provoked, I can be really dangerous. LoL !!!
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
you should be careful :( im sure your bf loves you but maybe one day she like kiss him or something in front of you just for you to think your bf still loves you and for you to leave him. that kind of girl is dangerous so you should be careful. she can like kiss him that moment and he didnt have time to put her away and you can misunderstand. the way you say she is she might do something like that. please be careful with that girl and try to be always near your hubby and be caring to him always^^ that way he wont ever even look to any girl^^ i know that he already loves you and dont look to other girls but if you care even more the better^^
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
7 Sep 10
I've heard a saying hit your enemy with kindness or something along those lines lol....If she thinks she has gotton to you she will keep on doing it smile say hi ask her how she is she won't know what to expect good luck...
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 10
The first thing you have to prepare is you yourself. Make sure you make peace of yourself, and you are ready for everything that is to come. If you have to lose him or if you -- this is what I pray -- will get along with him. That way you have solved one matter which can help you do positive things I believe everybody has nicely shared here.
Second, you have to believe in your boyfriend. If he is truly a nice guy and he loves you so much, so don't bother being jealous or something.
Third, I agree with the first responder. Make friend with her and treat her nicely. If your heart is trong enough, try to show her how close you are to your boyfriend, for example invide her when you and your boyfriend would like to watch movie or have dinner (of course you have to be the queen of your boyfriend, you know what I mean!). Be the very person she always needs if you can do that. It will strike a big blow! You know, sometimes good heart will win over trickery and tight skin!
Hope this helps...
