girls

I just hope all men should have that mentality that they can impress girls by its character not because of good looks and money. And for girls I do hope that they are not lame enough to look for bad guys just because they are challenging because in the end they really tend to ask of "how come guys are like that?" or "guys are really headache in life" where in fact they didn't bother to prefer a true gentleman with good traits.

Well, I'm a girl so I think I have a fairly objective answer for this. If you want to have a girl worth having then find a girl that is not attracted only to money nor good looks. You definitely don't want to be left by a girl because you became poor or you became older. So the girl you should look for is the type that likes you for who you are event though she knows you could go bald in the future or she knows your weaknesses and poor traits. Want to attract them? It's best to make friends. Have frequent sensible conversations. Make her feel comfortable with you. Talk about your interests and see which interests collides and see which repels so that you'll find out your compatibility. If you feel attracted to her, then sooner or later you'll find out or she'll fess up that she also likes you. Girls are complicated and delicate. We think in ways that are hard to explain but when you understood them, they'll appreciate knowing you.