Giving love 100%?

Philippines
September 7, 2010 1:57pm CST
Some people especially the girls who loved their partner so much give 100% of their love without giving themselves. For me, giving 100% love to our partners is not good because we all know that people is not perfect and it can do wrong things. For me, I only gave 50% love to my partner and 50% love for myself. How about you?
4 responses
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
i always give 100 percent if im really much in love. this happened to me 3 times already and always with wrong guys. two said they loved me and other one was my best friend that i was in love with but he wasnt. still all of them i gave all of myself and they didnt deserve it. first one was careless, second one was a big playboy and third one we were best friends, suddenly started to change his attitude like wasnt that much important anymore that we talked like he started to talk less with me, we started to argue, he started to ignore my messages :( he hurt me too much. so all of them i gave all of me and ended in me being sad and crying. less the first one that he was so careless that after many cry and sad i stopped love him and we broke up. anyway i just think we must always give 100 percent bcs if we love so much someone we give all our heart. is bad sure if the person doesnt love us the same but if does im sure it must be a great feeling. even i was so hurt i will continue giving all of me till i find right guy^^
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I'm really sorry to hear that sad news of yours. Maybe you should give yourself a freedom and respect so that next time you didn't felt that way . to be dumped by wrong person.100% you give to your partner for me is too much because they think that you are easily forgive them if you give and show your 100% love for them. That's what happened to many girls in our place and at the end they will end of crying. Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead ]Godbless
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
a relationship won't last if both parties are not giving all they can give.Measurement should be out cause we must not count how much we give or how much we're getting out of our relationship. If you love someone,your love a whole hundred percent,and surely it would return hundred fold times more!
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
If we are in love, we must not give 1005 of our love why? Because if we didn't give love for ourself meaning we are totally loved those guys. and if that guy want to quit the relationship , where we can stand?We need to give love for ourself because whatever happened we still have respect and love for ourself right? Not all the time the man is very faithful and perfect. well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
8 Sep 10
Hi careguarden~ I am definitely with you on this one. I think that is a great idea. A perfect half and half split! There is no point in giving anyone 100% because they never appreciate it anyway! You should be thinking of yourself first anyway!
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Yeah, it is better if we give 50% of our love because not all the time it is ours. Meaning , we still have remaining 50% of ourself.For me, it is good to have a 50-50. well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@doormouse (4599)
7 Sep 10
i love my boyfriend dearly but I always come first,to me mine and my kids happiness is more important than his,you only live once so why should i be unhappy to please someone else
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
Yes, you have a point about loving someone.Yes, for those who have kids is the first priority in our life than anybody else. Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless