cheating your partner!!!!

Nigeria
September 7, 2010 2:00pm CST
Can anyone ask sincerely why a man or woman will cheat in a relationship or marriage? I believe if you love someone enough to say the three powerful letter words "I LOVE YOU" it means you will stick to that person no matter what the situation is. So what is the cheating for?
3 responses
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
7 Sep 10
I think that what you say doesn't happen exactly after the start of a relationship or the marriage. Neither have I cheated on my girlfriend before, but I assume something like this because the love in the beginning is the strongest. I think that after a while you might not see your partner as the most attractive anymore and go to women which aren't suitable for real relationships (by this I mean the close relationship where they don't go their seperate ways and only come together for "love"). So they say that after a while the love feeling you have when being with a person changes to a feeling of friendship. This would perhaps make it easier to look to other people from the different gender and making them fail in their relationship earlier. But this doesn't occur to that many people at all, so you can't really tell if it is this reason... It's what I think though. All the best hktmee
• Nigeria
7 Sep 10
Thanks for the reply. Don't get me wrong am not saying it happens regularly am just asking why it has to be. I want to quote in your statement "I think that after a while you might not see your partner as the most attractive......." Don't we think or ask ourselves before getting into a relationship or marriage that I want will make me STOP loving this person? I believe if we can't honestly answer that question we shouldn't deceive our partner. NB: Am in love and theres nothing like cheating in it and there will never be because Christ is our foundation.
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
7 Sep 10
Very good for you that christ is your foundation, but it isn't mine honestly. Now it was just a tought what could have been a reason to cheat. Myself wouldn't do the same thing either, but it's one weird world mate.
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
they cheat or bcs they dont have enough care, or fall for other person and are afraid to tell to their hubby or wife. anyway i agree with you. if we dont love that person anymore or if we are unhappy we better get divorced than cheat^^ if we love someone for sure we wont cheat bcs that person is the only one that makes us happy^^ and if we are happy we dont cheat. we must be honest and even if we will hurt that person we have to do the right thing by telling the truth ^^ that person cant be happy with us if we love someone else or if we are unhappy with them^^ love is honesty too^^ and no cheating^^
• Nigeria
8 Sep 10
I FEEL YOUR PAIN......correct me if am wrong. I still believe we shouldn't start something we can't finish.........I will rather play with myself rather than sleep with another woman. Thats Love for me!!!
@MQLanaoC (51)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Cheating is always present in a relationship if the two of them has no TRUST with each other..then cheating comes!Even if the powerful word I LOVE YOU,it's nOT still enough,because what is important their is that hOw can you prOve it's TRUE..