what would you do if you were dating someone you think is a girl and is boy...
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 7, 2010 4:29pm CST
hi guys^^ what would you do if you were dating a girl/boy thinking it was a girl/boy when in reality was a boy/girl? pretty bad right? would you guys leave this person? or still be with the person bcs you loved him/her? please share your opinions^^
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
i understand you. would be very hard to accept that the person you thought was a girl in your case was a boy. for me too i love guys so would be hard to see he was a girl. i think i would have to leave this person but my question is that people say that love is about what we love like other person personality so is complicated right? bcs we also thought that person was boy when wasnt so are we really in love with that person? thats weird right? ahah^^ anyway wish this doesnt happen to noone.
@deejays1974 (210)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
It will be very awful for me. The only one who would benefit will be those who loves same gender. I have nothing against them but they must come out in the open and bite the bullet rather than lying all along.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
i understand^^ but i mean you were in love with this person and suddenly find out was from other gender would be a big schock. but what about your feelings? me too i dont know :( bcs is very complicated. i like boys and have a bf and suddenly find out is a girl would be too bad :( but what about feelings? bcs people say we never know what we do when is about love that we talk about.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
lol! I remembered when I was in high school, I was in the dance troupe and my dance partner was a "heshe". Well, he looked and acted like one and every body's that he is. There was one time when we were practicing our moves then he expressed his feelings for me and I was shocked and got angry at him. lol Anyway, we are good friends now.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
aww really? he was in love with you? ahah you got angry at him? ahah well i guess it would be weird for you bcs you knew already that he was a heshe ahah is good that you are his good friend bcs they are people like us just they were born in wrong body :) so we must respect and be friends why not? ^^ me too i can be friends with someone like that^^
@creed30 (127)
•
9 Sep 10
don't be feel bad on my response. first i will talk with reality not to disappoint you. online relationship specially you never meet your bf/gf is not easy its like finding a jewel in a rough road lucky if you find that jewel. the fact that you don't know person you just know what she/he told you. you must be more careful and observant of words and actions if he/she constant. best is you can see his/her parent,better if introduce you in her/his member in family, have plans to visit and stay with you long. hope my tips will help you. if she/he introduce his/her family member then abosuletly serious. good luck.
