Longing for my Sister and Brother's care

September 8, 2010 1:45am CST
I am the youngest among 3 siblings of my family, and i dont think so if I am their little sister. Everytime my sister go outside hang out with friends she never ask me to go with them... My brother also , he never count me as well. He never ask anything or be good to as well. They never treat me good, even at home i'll never felt friendship inside so that's why i'm alone. I want to be close to them, I am always doing somthing just to see them I was there and I'm belong to them being their little sister. But it seems nothing special, it's still the same. Until we reach the time that we need to separate because they got a new life I mean second family as well. Our situation is still the same, even calls they can not do it for me just say hi and hello..Now I'm longing for them, felt being close to them which is i didn't experience since before...I Love them so much but I'll never felt it.
2 responses
14 Sep 10
Me also.I'm longing for there care.My brother is not here.He's in Cebu.He will just be home during All Souls day and All Saints Day,after that he will go back again to Cebu.When he's home,we never had time together because he will go to his friends and hang out.He never spend time with me.Same with my sister.She's not with us.She went to Manila since i was in elementary.Until now,she never go back.But still I understand her,because she was the one supporting me in my studies.That's why she sacrifices not to go back home for my future.I miss them and i love them so much.
@Yheart (496)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 10
I hope you'll get better relationship with them. Have you ever told them your feeling? Tell them that you love them? Tell them that you want to be together with them as much as you can? I ever found a problem like this before in my family. My siblings seemed didn't speak to each other though they lived in the same house. As their sister, I wanted to make them stay connected and laugh together. I tried to find out their feelings and it worked, now they talk much and laugh together just because they know of each other's feeling. They were just too clumsy and didn't know how to show their love to others. I wish you won't be lonely anymore.