How easy can you fall in love with others
By Share.sherr
@ruanxueru (12)
China
September 8, 2010 4:52am CST
Lately, i found myself very easily to fall in love to others . I think it's because i am along (I don't have a lover). Will this make a guy change ,to love everybody?Or,it's because when a little girl grown up as a woman ,she regonize every man has different taste .And,she wants to taste every taste.How do you think of this ?
5 responses
@WaterQuoter (2)
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8 Sep 10
If you get in-love quickly without knowing that person briefly,
you are just in the state of infatuation which is usually seen like "Love at first sight."
Don't get to the wrong part, love and infatuation don't go together, because love is too far from feelings. Often we digress the true meaning of love, that then we get carried away by our feelings.
The real deal of love is having very good knowledge. -
"You can't love someone you don't know."
Now you have the knowledge, is now edible to distinguish the facts about someone -
Is he/she right for you?
With that, you may define the future and give the effort as of your confident to have the keys of your new relationship.
@ruanxueru (12)
• China
9 Sep 10
Thank you WaterQuoter!
I know that isn't love , and i knoe i just want to have a try with anybody i'm interested in ,I mean ,maybe one of them is my guy .But lately I just found i'm too easy to interested in a guy , and i don't it's good , so i wantna get some heip .And,maybe the best way to slove this paoblem is have a relation ,do you agree with me? I'm really curious to hear more opinions of this stuff.
@WaterQuoter (2)
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10 Sep 10
Having a relationship with others is not bad at all,
but you need to consider it as a responsibility which will affect you that includes your relationship with others too!
To have a healthy relationship - first, you need to be in a good state of love in yourself. "You can only love others if you have loved yourself."
Present yourself in the way you are.
In order to be happy with love, you gotta know how to define love and be sincere with it.
Remember:
Knowledge - is to define the First fact of love, this defines/analysis your fate. Know love, accept love that love in life is happy and hurt. Conclude the person after you got much information about him through friendship.
Love - or what we called Trust is a very critical virtue. Without the others, above and below - This won't work.
Service - With enough knowledge and trust, of course, if you just stay with words, nothing will happen. You need to prove it by works.
With this 3 elements, your love story will come true.
This relationship will not break the bonds between family and friends, it should be open arms. Remember that Friendship is the first level of knowing and service, therefore love. Goodluck.
God Is Love.
@ruanxueru (12)
• China
9 Sep 10
Thank you adhyz!
I know , so i want to listen their's opinions .Cause i don't want to like somebody so easy .I think it will make being hated , and maybe it will make me miss my true love .So , could you give me some suggetiones ?
Thanks~
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
taste every taste? ahah this is funny^^ well im like you^^ if a guy is too too sweet and caring to me i easily fall or have crush on him ahah i know thats crazy but i really love caring guys^^ anyway if i have a bf i look just to him^^ anyway is normal you feel that way bcs you are single and need care :) so when a guy is so sweet to you is normal you fall for him bcs not all guys are sweet to us. also we like when guys say that we are pretty, or ask us out and is so nice^^ is normal dont worry^^ as long as you dont be confused to who you will choose if both ask you to be their lover. that is a complicated issue :)
@ruanxueru (12)
• China
9 Sep 10
Thank you sweetloveforeve!
But you don't afraid to be lied ? Cause this things happens very offen in my country(the lied things),so i get worried about the strangers love .I think it's hard to trust,cause we had just once or twice and he saids he love me .Although i also have some good feels of him , but ,i don't knou how to deal with it .I mean i don't know should i keep in touch with him ?I always change my mind...
@winstonbaltazar (355)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
oh my! There is no such thing as falling in love easily. Maybe that person don't have any principle in life and does not value the sacred thing inside a woman.
@ruanxueru (12)
• China
8 Sep 10
And maybe that is because the woman experienced less ,right ? Cause i am that guy who i was talking about ...I know it's not right , but the problem is you can't control your feeling .I mean once you seems fall in love with other guys because the feels tells you "you're interested in him".What puzzleing me is ,maybe i am mistaken my feelings.
@gupili (6)
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8 Sep 10
hi, ruanxueru
If your opinion is called "fall in love easily", I think, many girls all fall in love easily. i mean, most girls want to taste every taste and it's a very common phenomenon. besides, most men have the same idea in their minds. That's why there is a balance between men and women.
@ruanxueru (12)
• China
8 Sep 10
But i want to solve this "probiem"(i think).Causse with it ,i will easily be lied ,make mistake and hurt somebody i care (when i feel like fall in love with my friend,and finally find out is not true,then there must be a bad result ).So,do you have any idear about it ?Please give me your hand!Cause I do really confused...
