What do women/girls want from men/boys and viceversa?

Romania
September 8, 2010 11:23am CST
I always thought about why the relationships between men and women so complicated are. Why don't they tell each other what they want, what kind of attitude they need so that everything should be clear. Many relationships are based on guessing and teasing. Why is that so? Who can give me a good answer?
2 responses
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
from girl's perspective,its quite embarrassing to stipulate as to what we want from our counterparts.it has been practiced that males do the initiative to please girls and girls would just wait for the men to do something.it has been ingrained in our minds to wait for the man to make moves without considering that we are sending mixed signals.maybe,it all boils down to how well your non verbal communication is. i mean, words may say something but the actions unbeknownst to her conscious mind will tell you what she really need and what she really wants. For example,when you are in a mall and you happen to stop by a shoe shop,then this girl keeps looking at it.She may or may not want you to buy it for her but still take the initiative to ask if she wants the shoe or does she plan to buy it for her.For sure,some girls will answer timidly,but as his bf u have the liberty to look into her eyes and decide if her eyes says otherwise.then act on what you see in the eye rather than heed her words..
• India
8 Sep 10
Well dear its a saying" God made earth and rest in peace, God made trees, animals sea, etc and rest in peace, again god made man and rest in peace, and from when god made man nor did the god and nor did the man was able to rest in peace" So dear till now even the god is unable to find the illogical mistake done by him in womens mind. How can we its near to impossible. Try to understand women at your own risk