To be introverted or extroverted?Which type you'd prefer to be?

China
September 9, 2010 2:24am CST
Surely,I have experienced lot of regrets.I think maybe because i am introverted and not good at speaking( unwilling to speak).Most of the time,i could not (maybe i dont want to)express myself in words very well,even if i have already had views in my mind,but my tongue seems to be bit on the slow side.Sometimes,i missed the proper time to deal with things or explain and made someone misunderstand me,then i realized i must do something to compensate for it.It really annoyed me,as i regretted that why i had not expressed or reacted at the appropriate time.I know i have to make a change and become more extroverted,but it is a bit hard,for i have been like this for several years.I want to know your insight.Thanks for sharing.
3 responses
noodleboy
@noodleboy (222)
• China
9 Sep 10
introvert or extrovert? I think each one has its own uniqueness and personality.For me, I prefer to be extroverted. I think sometimes extrovert means confidence and more communications with others. And extroverts often are skilled in expression.
keeponit
@keeponit (45)
• China
10 Sep 10
Extrovert can always get along well with others and welcomed no matter where they work in.Of course,generally,extroverts are more confident compared with introverts.Thanks for sharing.May the best of wish for you.
nyxy2008
@nyxy2008 (112)
• China
9 Sep 10
Whether introverted or extroverted,are good But remember:too interoverted will lose a lot of things,too extroverted will provoke a lot of trouble Therefore,at the appropriate time to leam to change their character
keeponit
@keeponit (45)
• China
10 Sep 10
Yeah!I concur with you.In my humble opinion,everything has its own range,too much is as bad as too little,it is just like cooking a dish,while you turn the gas down too much then the meal gets underdone,while you turn it up to the maximum then gets burnt.So control the heat well,then will make a good dish.Be flexible is more advisable.Thanks for sharing. Regards
kartiknaiduk
@kartiknaiduk (275)
• India
9 Sep 10
One cannot be very specific in all the circumstances. Sometimes we have to be extrovert, express ourselves and indulge in external things, where as sometimes we are bound to be introvert, and and just do only what is in concern to us. I think we should be flexible in our life and behave in accordance to the circumstances.
keeponit
@keeponit (45)
• China
9 Sep 10
Exactly.We should try to change ourselves to some extent to suit different conditions.If we do not change our mind,then we are not able to fit in well with this modern society.Of course,being flexible in coping with things always wins us success.Thanks for sharing. Regards