marriages!!!

If divorce is allowed in your country and you think your husband is not good enough for you then I guess you deserve someone better. So what are you waiting for? get that divorce and move on with your life. We only live once and we are the once who dictate our happiness. If you think you're not going to be happy with your marriage then why suffer. Who knows when you left you husband he will realize will do something to make a man out of himself.

So many people think that they married the wrong man or wrong woman I believe, but they go on living a lie, even they can't say, they don't allow themselves to accept that and imitate a fake happiness. Thank you for being able to say you married the wrong person.

You should have thought about it, before marrying him.. Now after marriage u tell all ill things about him.. I have not heard a single woman who shout bad about their husband in public throughout the internet!! Whatever he might be, he is your partner.. I think, u have to change him.. u have to give him proper treatment that he behaves well with you.. If he likes his mother much, he might be more affectionate (I hope is the only son for his parents).. u have to talk to him and make him to be with you.. Everything is curable!! It's not a proper culture for a woman to call his husband an idiot after marrying him.. I think, u took the promise before the bishop stating that u stand by ur husband by all means in all his ways in all his illness!! Now , u call him an idiot here/ Is that the promise says??

That is sad dear. But just for information's sake, how long have you been married? Many people would say that getting a divorce is the only option. But I have a different opinion. It is quite easy to break up any relationship. But the fact is that this is marriage dear and is believed to be a life long relation. I realize that you have been looking at the negative aspects of your man. That is unfair. There must be some positive traits in him and it is just that you have to find out some of these. I agree this man may not be the one out of your dreams but that is it. It is life and here it is quite difficult to find one out of the dreamland, and you have to believe me that no one is perfect. At least he doesnt go around thrashing you every now and then like many other MCPs. Honey, take some thought about it in cool head. Try finding out the Plus Points and you would realize that life is better. Also, start accepting the fact that he is a mama's boy and let that belief that he is not your dream boy get out of your head. Difficult but true. Try it and have a happy life.... God Bless.