How will you know if your husband or partner is cheating with you?

Philippines
September 9, 2010 6:46am CST
i just had a friend whose being cheated by her husband. Her husband abandoned her and their children. I dont want that to happen to me. So, i need to know if my husband or partner is cheating on me already...
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6 responses
• United States
9 Sep 10
Trust me, you will just know if you pay attention. He may start acting differently or not spend as much time with you. If he doesn't really pay you that much attention..or it could be the exact opposite. If he has not really been that passionate with you, but all of a sudden he is..it may be because he has someone else on his mind and he may have already cheated emotionally. Sometimes it is not only about the physical, it is about our hearts too. Be careful not to let your paranoia get the best of you though because you can drive people away with always suspecting something that may not be there. If he wants to cheat, there is nothing you can do about it. Just know that you are good enough and deserve better. As long as you are being the best wife you can be, then you shouldn't focus on anything else. Try to enjoy your marriage, have trust, and hopefully things will work out.
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
yopu gave me an idea about thAT. Thanks tou. I can now help my friend about her problem. Bcoz you know what, my friend is beautiful and sexy and kind. They have 3 beautiful sons but still the husband is mysterious. I'll tell you what will happen next. Now, i am learning too. I will be the best wife in his life.
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
9 Sep 10
Every criminal leaves clues. There is no such thing as the perfect crime. If there is no reason to be suspicious, don't start a problem. Have you started to see any problems? Any change in his habits? Is he not as warm and affectionate as he was before? Does he look as if he is hiding something? Does he talk less with you? Does he have a guilty look?
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
9 Sep 10
The signs of cheating are not always obvious to us. Sometimes it is just a feeling we have. When our partners spend less time with us and show less affection, it is often a sign of trouble in the relationship.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Based on my experience partner's who cheat usually won't let you see his cellphone. He often lies and won't answer your call. Often stays with friends rather than with you. His always excuse is he is busy.
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
hi there, im already married but so far my husband never cheated on me, and i know he is honest with me because i can feel that his true. I heard on some of my married friends that men who became very sweet and does things that are unusual to you such as, taking you out on a dinner, buying you clothes and gives flowers and through out the many years that you've been together, he never did those things to you... Then you should be suspecting that something is really going on on that guy... Lucky for me i never experienced that thing and im hoping and pray that it wont happened on both of us...Good luck on your marriage life.
@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
9 Sep 10
Try woman's intuition. That always is the best way to understand. From what you have wrote I'm more concerned about the fact that you don't trust your husband. Have a little faith in him. Guys are not the same!