I dreamt of my first love...
By liyanne
@liyanne (41)
Philippines
September 9, 2010 6:48am CST
A week ago, I dreamt of my first love. This guy was never my boyfriend though but he had been special to me since high school until almost 5 years ago. I am already with someone for almost 5 years, but there will still be times that my first love will cross my mind. Anyway, my dream was weird, it's so dramatic but i wouldn't even remember the exact words, but i think our conversation is about something that i didn't understand or whatever. I already lost contact with him because I didn't make an effort anymore to contact hi, but I would like us to become friends again. Well, he used to ignore me before, saying to his girlfriends that we are not even friends, which hurt me really bad. Will it be okay to reconnect with him and make and effort to do so, I mean, we're both grown ups and so my boyfriend.
3 responses
@hartlyn (5)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
hello..yes i think that's true...you dreamt of him bec you are thinking of him...or maybe you both need to have closure if that didnt happen before...it will be okay to reconnect with him but your partner needs to know...some lovers became friends...i haven't talked to my exbf for i think 10 years but he found me on facebook and we were talking from then on and became friends besides we both have families!!!
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
9 Sep 10
You can try finding him in Facebook or if you have his number, call him. I mean the time he has ignored you has already happened and it's long ago. This dream of yours is probably signalling to you to try and call him and reconnect with him.
@butterline33 (184)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
hi there.. dream is said to what you've been thinking subconsciously, those are the unresolved issues that you have in the past, and dreaming about your first love and having that past with him is unresolved is a sign that you really need to face and finish whats bothering you for a long time unconsciously. Before contacting with that guy, you need to assess first if your ready to face him and clears the things between you and him and the past, and most of all you should make it sure that your present boyfriend knows bout it and if its okey for him that you will communicate with that guy.
