dreams ....

That's life. Sometimes we can make things happen quickly. Sometimes we can't. But dreams are dreams. They are made out of our own fertile imagination. Some are within the bounds of reality while some are not. I think the best way to make our own dreams come true is to make sure that they are realistic in the first place and that we're fully prepared to face the challenges to reach it. We have limitations, and we should never fail to put that into consideration before starting anything. We should also accept the fact that life is just like a game. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. The sooner we accept the fact that we can either win or lose in any given time, the better we will be in facing the outcomes of our own endeavors. To be honest, going back to zero isn't really that bad if you learned something from it. As what Thomas Edison once said about overcoming the odds: "I am not discouraged because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward." :)

I think the trick is to hold on to your vision no matter what. It’s not easy to do when it all seems hopeless. I tried for a baby for six years to no avail and I held onto my goal even at the end when my husband and I had had no hope left. It was then we released our wish to the Universe because there was nothing else we could physically do. When you’ve run out of actions let it go and it may just happen in due course…

hi anshulmahajan I think either Emerson or Thoreau said its okay to dream just put a foundatin under your dream. Life I think does consist of us trying to make our dreams come true and sometimes we succeed and again some times we do not. But I would not give up hope as some dreams can be restructured a bit then made come true and that sometimes turns out even better than the original dream. Good luck.