Just ended with one-year-relationship, should i accept the new one to come?

You should have a look at the quiz on the Stages page of the whenyourloverleavesyou.com website. It'll help you know if you're stuck or ready to move on.

i'm sorry about the loss of your girlfriend. you can take a breather for awhile with other relationships because you may end up with someone on the rebound. take it slow. you will find the right one. best to you.

if you were in a relationshp with somebody that did not love you and then decided to break up with the person, i say bravo! There is no need fantasising of the person cos you two would never work. Look for somebody who really loves you and she would help you forget about your ex. I am sure your ex must be moving on with her life right now. You have every right to be happy and so you should

I think that you should get into a new relationship, when you're ready to do so and when you feel that you've met someone that you really have feelings for. If you find yourself in this position, then I would say that you should do it. But you should do it at your own pace. Don't force it to happen.

hi nguyenmlam, i think you should follow what your heart is really telling you. looks like you're still in love with your ex, though. if she really said good bye, then accept this first before jumping into a new relationship. just my 2cents :)

You might want to look at the quiz at the whenyourloverleavesyou.com site. It's on the Stages page and really helpful with figuring out if you're stuck or not.

Just because one relationship has ended doesn't mean a new one isn't ready to begin. We should always ne willing to take a chance. Don't be afraid to listen to your heart. Trust the feelings you have for someone. it;s when you stop having feelings that you need to worry.

Hi dear, It is a practice of getting girl g/fs and b/fs and cut off after some months with a few small misunderstandings. I don't know the age and reason behind it. You have the confidence in getting new ones any way as you are hansom. Now a days, the break up and rejoin also are common. Here the reason for your first g/f parted is not mentioned. She also didn't have a real love with you. If she had, then she would have with you even now also. So, you got some plus points with you and still expectations. So wait for the best among the best and can go for a better relation in future. If it is in my case, and I like the first girl as much, I will not allow her to go any one else's hands. And also if my love is perfect and meant for her only, he would be mine and mine only for ever and I will not give a chance to her to love someone else, as long as I am there. Again, if I had a relationship of one year, I could have done anything for it within a weeks time after we met for the first time. Hope, the new one may end up with a pleasant marriage. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, It is a practice of getting girl g/fs and b/fs and cut off after some months with a few small misunderstandings. I don't know the age and reason behind it. You have the confidence in getting new ones any way as you are hansom. Now a days, the break up and rejoin also are common. Here the reason for your first g/f parted is not mentioned. She also didn't have a real love with you. If she had, then she would have with you even now also. So, you got some plus points with you and still expectations. So wait for the best among the best and can go for a better relation in future. Hope, the new one may end up with a pleasant marriage. Regards, Thank-s

Well if you fall in love again then just go for it. And no matter when you are going to find your new love it will definitely replace your ex. Just grab her when she comes and don't let her go. Love her with all your heart and also make sure she also loves you in return.

time is important before going into a new relationship. You should not mistaken the longingness for your ex as likeness or love to a new girl. before entering a new commitment, you must be sure of yourself that you have gotten over with your ex. And since you are still wondering up to this moment, then you should not be involve in a love relationship with someone yet. yes, you can enjoy having new friends, go out on dates or group dates, but that is not to commit yourself into it. you can also divert your attention through engaging into your hobbies more or have a new hobby. that way you can also develop your skills and improve yourself while getting over with your ex until such time you will wake up with a fresh heart where you can let another girl enter...good luck

I think it would better for you to calm your feeling first. Taking action while your heart and brain full of problems is not the best thing to do. You'll end up with another stumble and many more problems. Just take it slowly, make up your mind, and freeze up your heart. A calmness will help you a lot to make the right decision. And a right decision is very urgent in our life.

You should not accept new one but be friend to them to know them more.

Goodlooking is a strongpiont, but if you want to have a real love ,you should try to admire others her inner beauty. Forget the one that is gone,and accept the new friends. Goodluck!

i think if you just want to play with the girls, do not go into a new relationship. the reason - you could only hurt the girl because you do not love her as much.

Well, if you have no more feelings with your ex and you think that you're ready for the next spring for yourself, then I urge you to go ahead. Many people who broke up because of the case of one party not being able to keep the love going on between them, often results in bad endings. Usually it's the male who can't take it and he went on to do foolish things. However, one advice from me is: there are many flowers out there for yo to choose. Why stick on to that one flower as if it's extinct already?

I'm so sorry to hear what had happened. It is better to happen now than later especially when you're married and have kids. At least you are still single, and my! ... Good-looking! I can't see your picture but I'll take your word for it. It is only you who can say if you are ready or not. As long as you are comfortable with your actions then you are on the right track. If not, better wait for a while and let the chip fall where they may. Also, ask God for guidance because He will not let you down. Good luck!

I would have to say that a year with your ex is quite sometime, so I would suggest that you take a bit of time before involving yourself quickly with someone else. This then becomes rebound love and it will not work out as in the end you find that you did not truly care for the person just trying to fill an emptiness. I would also have say that does not mean you cannot date a little bit but make sure you are clear to the other girls that you want to get to know them as a person first, and keep telling yourself for a bit it is merely dating and do not get attached to quick. As you need a bit of time to find out what you truly want and don't before settling for another and then someone ends up hurt. So time friend is the best remedy to a lost love which will heal the wounds. Good luck to you.

sorry for the break-up. you should have already learned with this relationship you had. don't look for girls and don't try to find replacement, it would be unfair for the new girl. just meet people open yourself and make new friends. One day you'd find yourself falling in love again for the right reasons not because you just want to forget about your ex. just enjoy your life being single this time, don't push things too soon, they will come your way when you least expect it. good luck!

you must accept the new one.. but if you don't it's okay