i gave up...
By slipz1487
@slipz1487 (415)
United States
September 10, 2010 6:32am CST
"I waited and waited for you to come back. All i wanted is for you to acknowledge my importance, but i guess, your pride is more important than me."
5 responses
@thedataminer (515)
• United States
11 Sep 10
It sounds like you are heartbroken. If the love of your life is not treating you good then he doesn't deserve you. You can find a new love of your life. I know it is not easy but forget this person who isn't making you feel important. He is not worth it.
@slipz1487 (415)
• United States
12 Sep 10
thanks a lot.. i do feel that way.. i am worth more than the way he is treating me.. i will not allow him to undermine me anymore..
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
That's hurting.., Love should be greater than pride.., I know it's our human nature to have pride take over at certain times.., But we should also be aware that too much pride will lead us to nowhere..=)
@slipz1487 (415)
• United States
10 Sep 10
at times i think that i might be the one with so much pride, but i have disregarded my pride for so many times, it even reached the point where in i disregarded my self...why is it so hard for him to do the same?
@fragilewings (316)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
I'm so sorry to hear that you're having this kind of problem. I do understand how you feel, I've been in that situation before. I've been rejected by my first love multiple times. I've waited for him for six years hoping that he'll love me back. What hurt me even more was, no matter what I do, he can't love me back and I've witnessed how he chased other woman and not recognizing my love for him. He was my first love and giving him up was a very tough decision. When I decided to let him go, I've come to meet my TRUE LOVE-- the man who promised to love me for the rest of our lives. Though our relationship isn't perfect, I'm now happy with my husband.
I hope you'll be able to make the right decision. Whatever will that be, whether you'll continue to wait for him or just move on, I hope it will still lead to a happy ending. :)
@JAYMAR777 (840)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
Maybe you both need to meet halfway. You sound very hurting. Maybe a little move at your part will eliminate that. Maybe the problem is not that bad. why not give the benefit of the doubt my friend.
Well this is just my two cents, maybe this two cents is all that you need.
I hope you will be ok.. Good day slipz
@slipz1487 (415)
• United States
10 Sep 10
actually, it is that bad and i am definitely hurting..in a way i am filled with anger but every day i still whisper his name and i just cant help but do that...
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
If you think it is best for you to give up then don't feel sorry. If that someone cares more of his pride then i think it was best that you have given up. I was also in that situation. I waited for him for 5 years and then i finally stop waiting, then now that i want to be with someone else, he came back. He's asking me if i am willing to accept him back but i say its too late.