Do guys only go after the women who probably won't turn them down?

I think it depends on the situation.. If the boy is only looking for fun.. well then of course he will go to those fishes who can be easily catched... BUT if the BOY gets serious,,,, no matter what he will still pursue to the girl that he really likes and will just stop is the girl really insisted to STOP and says that it is worthless to continue.. TESTED and PROVEN =)

Anyone would do for me. The ones that i pursue that are actually worth the pursue i go for. but then agin i may get tired of the whle thing and decide to pay her back the way she paid me.

I don't know. I don't think it's a big deal if a woman says NO. sometimes we gotta give it time. what if you asked that person and you don't even have the slightest idea that you're "wrong timing" despite of you being ready. but it's never bad to asked some one since it's just a date.and date is how people get to know each other, that's all.

i think when guys only go for the girls who won't turn them down for sure, they're just being realistic, and that's not bad at all. in time they could get really attracted to the girl as much as the girl is attracted to them.. on the other hand, it's also good if a guy goes for someone that is quite hard to reach. it's a good challenge if they try to pursue a girl they really like though unsure if the girl will say yes to them.. in my case, my boyfriend had a hard time pursuing me since 13 years ago. i turned him down when we were in first year highschool, but 13 years later he pursued me again and i finally said yes. we're so much in love right now :) i do believe in fairytale-like stories and happy endings :) who knows, the girl of your dreams might also fall in love with you someday - so don't lose hope, keep on trying. best of luck to you guys ^_^

i dont really care if a lady is going to turn me down, coz i always go for what i want and if its there/she the lady i have fallen for is there i swim in, without looking back, and hey i always get what i want though i dnt show, my looks usaully seel my intents, the smart ones aint good enuf if your bold go for it never be afraid coz if you dont try, you have automatically failed

i've always told man who wants to court to never ask the girl if she allows him to court her. because it is just like asking her assurance that yes he have somehow chance to her. if he would really go for a woman he really wants then it should not matter if he stand a chance to the girl.

Well if you are looking for a true love then it will take time as the girl will turn you down and leave you to work hard and slog to get her. Its when you are not looking for a serious relation that you look for women who dont turn you down.

I think that guys nowadays want to play safe and ask women whom they think wont turn them down. However, I still know some guys who are patient with the women they like and are still waiting for those women to give attention to them. In my own opinion, guys should not be scared to pursue women even if they are not sure that they like them too. It is part of the challenge, besides, many women are good at hiding what they really feel towards guys, so if the guys will "chicken out" before even trying to ask, well, it is their lost. =)