Break up to Make up?

These things are always a mess.You can't fix the broken and expect it to be the same :)

Well, i do have a friend back in high school. I just cant remember the reason whats the real reason why. All i remember that me and some of my best friend was reaching out for her again to be friend. But it seems so aloof and we cant do anything about it.

This is right down my alley at this point in time in my life. I'm not sure, but I think I lost a friend over something pretty stupid. This is a guy friend and we had been best friends for years. We almost dated many times, but then he back away. But I knew I loved him. Finally, he did something one night that really hurt me and I said to myself that I was done waiting for him and if he wanted me, he would let me know. Then, I met my fiance. Danny(my friend) all of a sudden became a real jerk to me. He tried to get me to hang out with him without my fiance. I knew it wasn't right, but I was missing a lot of signs until a friend pointed them out to me, that Danny wanted me. One night, Danny wanted me to come to a park here in town by myself. i told him I was tired because I had just gotten home and it was late. I told him he was more then welcome to come here and hang out. and if he felt awkward, we could visit outside. He said to hell with it and hasn't talked to me sense. i saw him the other night and he acted like he wanted to say something, but just walked away. I knew I did the right thing, because I knew my fiance wouldn't like it and I wouldn't like it if he ran off to hang out with a girl in the park at night. Danny was my best friend and i did love him, but I had had enough of getting hurt and the confusion. I haven't talked to him for a couple months now. Most of the time, I try to make ammends, but this was a losing battle. I knew i would lose something sooner or later and I love my fiance with my whole heart and I wasn't about to risk it.

For me its more about how many times has this happened! If you have little petty arguments every now and then thats just life but when its starts happening a lot and over the same petty things thats a red flag for me. I need some one I can trust and count on, not an old women who wants to fight about little petty things. Life is so much better when you let all the little things go. Stay positive. When your butting heads with others thats all negitive! On another note I feel being happy also leads to good health! So why have all these arguments when we are a society need nothing more then to work on our health. Positive positive positive! Thats my way of thinking and if my so called friends can't understand that then thats there problem and maybe its time to move on!