do you love your sister/brother/mother more than your bf/gf? ^^

Portugal
September 10, 2010 2:50pm CST
hi guys^^ do you love your sister/brother/mother more than your bf/gf?^^ i was just wondering bcs for some people even that have a lover their family is always first to them. anyway what about you guys? about me when i have a bf and really love him and he really loves me for sure i will love him more than everyone else^^ what about you guys? please share^^
4 responses
@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
my family first before bf... well if he's just a bf... u dont know whats going to happen to ur relationship.. he can dump u whenever hewants.. while family stickd with u through the end of time.. whether uve been good or bad... right now that i have my own family... well family first!!
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
thanks for your opinion^^ i think that for most part of people family is first^^ about me when i have a bf i know he will be first to me bcs he will be the person that will be always there for me when i have problems and we can share a different love of what we have for our family^^ feelings are more strong i think^^ thats just what i feel^^ thanks for your opinion^^
• China
11 Sep 10
family is first to me now~ I used to love bf than family.And considered him as a menber of my family.At last,he left nothing without breaking my heartings.After that I found I should love my family more than anyone else.I feel keenly that meaning of ree_yah's saying of "while family stick with u through the end of time... whether uve been good or bad...".
• Portugal
12 Sep 10
sorry that your bf hurt you :( but soon you find a sweet bf that i wish you love him as much as you love your family^^ and yes in good or bad times our family is there for us but if you have a bf that also loves you much he also will be there for you too^^ just sometimes is not easy to find a guy that really loves us^^ dont worry soon you find a great guy^^ thanks for your answer^^
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
10 Sep 10
bf/gf come and go but family is here to stay!!...dont get me wrong I love my bf but i'd have to say it dont compare to the love I have for my family!!!!
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
so your family is first^^ ok^^ thanks for your answer^^ and sure i dont think you dont love your bf^^ just you love your family more :) i respect your feelings^^ and wouldnt blame you bcs we cant choose who we will love more^^ i think it just depend of how people feel and how your family and your bf is with you also^^ some people that are not so attached to their family maybe love bf more or maybe just love him more for other reasons^^ but sure is ok you love your family more^^
• Portugal
12 Sep 10
no im close to my family^^ i just wanted ask bcs many people give more value to family than to their bf or gf and i think at least we must give same value^^ bcs our bf is also important in our life^^
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
10 Sep 10
I am very very close to my family. they are THE most important to me no matter who i'm with. if your one hun who isnt close to your family i'm so sorry for that...
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
12 Sep 10
So meaning to say you will love him more than to your family? In my case I can't compare since the love is different. Of course if you love your family that is not romantically which is for the relationship.
• Canada
10 Sep 10
It's not really a love you can compare. The love you have for your family is a different kind of love than you have for a boyfriend/girlfriend. But I guess I'd have to say I love them the same amount.
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
ohh foreverfamous^^ thats great that you love them the same^^ is just that for some people the family is always first than their bf/gf ^^ and i dont agree bcs our bf is the person that will stay with us forever right?^^ so i dont think we must love our family more. i like your answer that you love them the same amount^^ thats a good thing^^ meluan yes is a different kind of love^^ so you love them the same?^^