LOve hurts a LOT..

Hi MQLanaoC, That's ridiculous! Maybe I would lose strength on my knees so I would just sit at the side of the road and cry. It's really painful to see with your own eyes how your boyfriend and your very own best friend are cheating on you. It hurts to know that he had fallen out of love. It's so much painful to know that there's somebody else. But it's killing to know that it's not you whom he want when all the while he's just beside you.

love hurts if you dont know how to value it. love truly if you dont want to get hurt badly.^^

It can be a beautiful thing to witness the power of two people in love. it can also tear you apart. it can bring out emotions and feelings that give you joy as well as those that make you feel things you wish you couldnt. Love can hurt or heal. A promise of love is still a good thing. it is a sign of hope.

correct me if i'm wrong....your bestfriend is the bridge whenever you and your ex-bf quarelled she tried to help you both to reconcile... after a while they fell in love to each other... it's not a rare story... all you have to do is eat a box of chocolates.lol. 1 night of crying is enough, after that try to accept the fact its really meant to happen because you deserve better... you can't appreciate the beauty of being in love if you didn't experienced to be hurt... goodluck girl

woah!..if that happens. i wont bother killing myself.. the heartache would be enough to kill me.. being betrayed by both the people you love and trust is one of the things i cant handle..

I would be very sad and desperate.I cannot accept the reality of that situation and I will leave them, trying to not see them together and disappear in their left lifetime. As far as I know, I always see the novels happened those things and will not believe it will come true in my situation. Anyway, that is not the end of world. Maybe the first time or moment I see them, I will be very angry and feel like being betrayed, then I will clear up my those negative feelings and seek for my new relationship. Life is like a box of chocolate and you will never know what you will get from it, so after a long long time I may bless them and I hope I can overcome this pain in heart and live in happiness, because life is only once and we should enjoy every second of it.

Whew! Love hurts really. Before I go far with my comment, I want to confirm, you used the term "was", does that mean you already broke up with your boyfriend? and does not consider your bestfriend no longer your friend? By the way, seeing the scene was really hurting because you are close to both parties involved. Worse, the issue involves trust, love and friendship. If I would be in your shoes, perhaps that would be a time for me to let go. I may love my boyfriend and fight for that love, however, if I see that scene and felt the love between my boyfriend and bestfriend, then I guess I will no longer take the risk to fight for my love. The situation is very clear that my love would be worthless, so better let it go.

THis is horrible i would be shattered as i imagine you are. It goes to show you that people are not always as they seem. I know it probably doesn't feel like it now but it is better that you know know rather than go on believing the false people you have been surrounding yourself with. Get out and about meet some new wonderful worthwhile people this could be your blessing in the end.

If she was my girlfriend and he was my best friend. Then i will let go of them. They will stay happy, but i don't want to bother them at all. I would move on, trying not to think of it although is going to hurt me. But, i don't exist for them anymore. I will cut all ties with them... They would become invisible for me.... I have to move on.........

OWWWW! that must have really hurt; your boyfriend and your best friend! how are you doing now? if it had been me i guess after the initial shock and hurt i would just let it go. there's no point in forcing oneself into anyone else's life . . . i hope you find someone who is worthy of your love. good luck.

...sorry to hear that... i will definitely feel the same thing....but it would be best to leave them be, the more you watch and think about them, the more pain you will feel...it's hard to forget and forgive, it takes time, but you won't get over if you won't start now..try to recollect your lost pieces and spend more time with your self or hang out with few of your friends and have fun...eventually, you will forget about them, about the pain...

Oh my! That was a tragic experience indeed. I will surely cry my heart out if I am in your situation. It's high time for you to let go of him since it was a vivid picture of infidelity. She doesn't also deserve to be called as your best friend because she betrayed you. A true friend is an honest friend who will avoid to hurt the other as much as possible. This is a sad story my friend. Be strong.

i will feel very lucky to know the reality of my cheater boyfriend before our marriage and i will visit the boyfriend of my friend and tell him her reality too.