So sick of lOVE..

Many people say lover hurts. But that's not true. Broke hearts hurt, betrayal hurts, losing someone hurts, but none of these things are love. I reality ..LOVE is the only thing that heals us and makes everything all right again.

Oh MQLanaoC ! I am sorry for you as you have face odd love relation where you get pain atlast. Actually, I have seen so many love relation thats end awwardly and left only pain memories. Its happen to most people. Dont worry, I hope you recover soon from this saddest situation soon. Love is a steetest thing but remember if its vanish its bitter those sweetest things and make life hell. So, never fall in love but always rise in love ;-) I thing you get my point friend :-)

Hi MQLanaoC, Welcome to Mylot. Sorry you have had such a hard time with love and that it has left you feeling this way. I have had my heart broken so many times that I lose track but it's all worth it I think. The love is real while it lasts and each time you walk away learning a little more about what you want and don't want in a relationship. You could of course avoid love all together and avoid the pain but if you do that then you'll also miss the good part and you'll never know if you could have found someone that was just perfect for you. Good luck, MQlanaoC. I hope you find peace and happiness.

It's true to be truly hurt by someone you have to open yourself up to them, leaving you cut raw when they hurt or betray you. love is a weakness more than a power. the grass is always greener story. =/

...i understand your side..although we should consider the fact that there are other people who experienced the same thing...love is like a trial and error process...it's like applying for a job, you do your best all the time, but if the job is not for you, then there is nothing more you can do about it...love is the same, the moment we decided to love someone, we are prepare of every consequences, be it good or bad...love is the unity of happiness and pain...it is only natural to get hurt, maybe it is just not your time yet, but we should not stop loving and get tired of it...think positive, be positive...it's hard to get over but time heals everything..

So sorry to hear so, seem like that we now can be friends right? Cause I've just done with my one year relationship, yeah, I'm feeling very bad now. My girlfriend and me, yes, we are very happy together in the beginning, but after one year, things get worse, and she doesn't love me anymore, it's just me that keep loving her, and love her more and more every single day. Yes, I hope, I always hope, hope and try alot in this relationship, I tried to make her happy, try to satisfy her, try to get everything she needs, try to make things better, try to handle brokens...but you know? efforts can not be at one side, no matter how hard I try but if she doesn't try, if women want to get rid of us from their lives, then...nothing we can do about this, break-up is a certain result... Hope then hopeless? Hope more then hopeless one more time, hope hope hope, and than you feel sad sad sad, tired tired tired, hurt hurt hurt, pain pain pain !!! Is it true my friend?????? True??? So....we, those poor patients fron lovesickness, it it worth that we keep feeling pains till the end of our life? do we deserve to be sad till we die??? NO, we are doing good things, and God will bless us! At least we did love them truly, at least we do love them with all our hearts, at least we are true to our love, then one day will find our true love, one day we will be loved and have a happy life, ever ever after. Never stop believing my friend!!!! Try to overcome as I'm doing, and trying. Together try? Be friends?

Hi, Being in love is so wonderful and every thing in the world looks amazing. But when you get hurt by your loved one, then you mau find that Love is so torturing. That is Love,very abstract and full of mystery,however, people are still going through the LOVE LIFE. In order to a relationship to get stable and long lasting,the element of LOVE itself is totally not enough. Mutual understanding and trust are very important for a relationship to last forever.

I understand what you feel, relationship is not always end up happy ever after. There are people lucky with love and there are unlucky. But you must put in your mind that someday you will find the right one for you who will love you unconditional way. Goodluck to you.

You know what they say, dance like there is no one watching and love like you have never been hurt. You will get hurt again and again but eventually it will all be worthwhile when it finally happens for real. So love again and love like you have never been hurt and who knows, this time it could be the one. Go for it.

when you are doing some thing you think of positive side and we should think at the same time for negative side ,it seems you have not prepared yourself for negative side ,life is full of surprises ,go ahead try again ,keep it up ,do not dishearten,thanks for sharing.

Hi MQlanaoc! It seems like you've just ended a relationship. Felt that the hurt is is there. It is really true,that loving someone gives us pain. We can't avoid it,problem and hurting each other are part of a relationship. We just have to cope up with it,but some problems are so deep that ending up the relationship is the only result to stop being hurt. Feeling in love gives us so much,it makes us happy,makes us hopeful. It's a very very heavenly feeling. If I may say,please don't close your heart in falling in love again. Being in love and having someone who loves you brings joy in everyone's life.

i feel the pain from your words. you might have been hurt badly by someone you love. but you shouldn't give up on love. it is very true that we do meet a lot of wrong partners just to learn from them and to realize there is someone coming much better. it is part of loving, being hurt, it makes u sane, it makes you know that nothing is perfect. Love is the very essence of God so don't lose hope on it coz' love is everywhere around you. you just need to know how to appreciate the different kind of love shown to you.

I respect how you're feeling right now since at some point in my life I also felt cynical about love. It will just pass. I tell you, it's just that you haven't found the right one yet to give the kind of love that you have to offer. Don't lose hope about love. As long as you live there's always a ray of hope that someday, somehow that somebody worth of your love will come your way. Believe! Hey, as they say "There's always sunshine after the rain!" :)