The signs.

Malaysia
September 11, 2010 9:01am CST
I thought I already forgive someone. But deep inside my heart always say that I should stay away from this person. I even didn't say a single word when we're gathering in the same place. I don't know what the sign if I really forgive that person. Could you help me? cause this is annoying me.
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adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
i dont about the sign. but your story tell us that you still remember his/her
indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
This means you do not forgive completely. At least when you meet, you can say hello, or just lip service, so you do not decide gathering. If you want forgiveness, you must give with sincerity.
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@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
13 Sep 10
Hmmm. You have to be honest to yourself. If you are not ready to forgive, you have to avoid that person, but if you feel that you have already forgotten all the bad things to that person then, talk to that person. You will really know the sign if you have already forgiven the person or not by feeling it within your heart.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Sep 10
The heart dictates stronger than the mind. We can say we forgive but actually do not forget. In your case sounds like you have not totally forgiven, or at least you will not be able to trust again. This does happen and time is the only thing that will allow you to distinguish the difference. Whomever you had to forgive needs to regain your trust, if that is even possible. Good luck to you. I see that you are fairly new so welcome to myLot -