Friendship or Love.
By kartiknaiduk
@kartiknaiduk (275)
India
September 11, 2010 12:59pm CST
Which one would you give the first preference, if you have to choose between friendship and love, but do not forget to state the reason why you would choose friendship/love. I know its really tough to take such kind of decisions, but at least put on your thoughts.
6 responses
@green1223 (57)
• China
12 Sep 10
It defend on each other ,love is beginning in friendship commonly .but some love can contain friendship but some friendship cannot contain love, if it tend to change love will disappear neither friendship nor love .so if you cannot sure you have love in her /he please don't say out love .it is just my opinion
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
If you are asking about friendship or lovers which i choose between the two of them well i prefer friendship of we cant be a lover. First i will try if we will become lovers then if not then proceed to friendship which lasts longer than lover. Although we are friends i know that there will also love between us as friends at least he did not lose in me.We are still together and we can still see each other as friends and can help if we have problems. still we are connected which is very important to us.
@theplanner (298)
• Philippines
11 Sep 10
It depends to where the question is leading. If the question is: "Would you START as friends or BECOME lovers?" Then my answer would be, for me it's friendship first because from here it will blossom to love. Friendship is the base of a good relationship since it is a stable foundation. If you were first a friend before becoming a lover, it's easy to express how you feel because you can open anything to a friend. You feel comfortable talking to him/her. However, if you ask me "Would you rather STAY as friends or move on to the next level which is to BECOME lovers?" Then my answer is still the same. I'll still choose keeping the friendship than becoming lovers especially if you're not sure if you will jump into a relationship, that relationship will last. Then you'll lose both. A friend and a lover. It's a little bit complicated but just the same I'll choose friendship. I hope I make sense. :)
