Broken Heart????

Before anything else I would like to say sorry to hear this words "broken heart". Being a broken heart, It's really difficult times to just lost the thing that we kept in our heart..but we need to suffer this to give way our heart to choose the destiny that we want in life and make us happy again... Have a great day!

It's not easy being broken-heart they say..i approved to that... but it's more better to set aside those things that bring us down remember a saying? "throw things that kills you and hold those that keeps you breathing" If they chose to leave you then they are not worth to cherish.. It is still a way for you to realize you are "real" Just don't get tired of loving!

It's great to see such a sensible attitude. If something is wrong then get out and pick yourself up and start again. I think too often we settle for something that isn't quite right because we are afraid of losing what we have and never finding what we want and need. Believing in yourself, having confidence, knowing what you want and having a healthy self esteem are the ingredients for finding happiness with another. If you think too little of yourself then that's how others will see you and also think of you.

Well its tough having to move on from a someone you care deeply for, but I think with time and healing a person can move forward and find happiness agin. so never say never because life is full of good surprises you just have to keep your heart and mind open to them. I'm no expert thats for sure, but I believe in having hope and not giving up or closing myself off though sometimes its hard to stay positive with all the stressful and disappointing things I've gone through, I always do my best to keep a positive attitude in a healthy realistic sense.

SO very true, if we never feel the pain of loss the we will never know the perfection of true love!

I'm in my first serious relationship in my life... I cant imagine my life without her now, we both agree in that. but despite of that Im still afraid what would happen if we run out of love from each other... I just hope that happens to both of us, because If the other is still deeply in love it would hurt a lot... but knowing how beautiful is to love someone Im sure I will try to find the right one next time.

Move on! You have to just move on. Yes, it hurts and it is going to hurt for a long time, but you are going to have to learn to move on and enjoy life. Life is too short. You just have to learn to love and let go.

Great article Bird... It must be published world wide and should be given to all the youngsters... I have had my share of pain before some time. Now, I have found my true love... But I still know the pain... It is the most terrifying thing that happens to a human being... May no one lose his/her love of life...

well i know it's really difficult to get out from the person you loved the most and he/she left you but to tell you the truth if this ever happens to me i will only think that for only a day then i will definitely forget and move further in life with the thought that i have lost the one who loved and he/she has lost the one who loved him/her the most and in this way i can lead a happy life...

I am amazed at your wisdom. And I feel blessed to have you as a friend. :) When I was young, yes, it felt terrible. But soon realization dawned that there were things about which I was lying to myself. Things that were against my nature, but I was bending over my back to keep the relationship. Invariably, I would revert back and it was bound to fail, and that I needed somebody who would accept me for what I am and not somebody who is tailor made for them. And while I didnt find anybody else to love me (out here love is buyable - dowry system), I am not exactly unhappy. This is because I can be me, which feels great.

huh.. heartbroken.. i hav been heart broken twice in my life . once in my 9th std .. wen i loved a girl ..and she got committed to sum other guy.. and 2nd tym wen agn i was madly in love wid sumone .. and that girl was not interested in love .. lolz... she was ..i dunno wat kinda girl,.... no body cud understand her .. not even her frnds...but now no worries .. cuz i'v found the love of ma lyf... and m happy wid her..

Wow. This is the topic I've been waiting for. Been there, done that. That's what I'm always saying to my friends. They've given all the advices they can give but it seems that I've already done those do's and don'ts that they've mentioned to me. And yes, after your heart got broken, all trust is gone. And it's really hard to get it back. On my end, I've done everything just to get him back even if having him back meant a lot of sacrifices, stress and depressions.. Have you already experienced that, when you are broken hearted, small things make you so depressed or mad or simply hurt your feelings?? That's how I felt when I and my boyfriend broke up. It's really, really hard for me. He's keeping to, like giving me hope that we could get back together if only I will change my attitude, but hurting me over and over again. I was about to give up then. But when I told him that I' giving up, maybe he was enlightened that he's going to lose me completely that's why he made that decision to see me again.. When we saw each other, I eventually asked him if he want to get back. He agreed. But he told me that everything won't be the same as before because things got very complicated before we broke up. At least, I am now very happy because the relationship is working. Everyone was telling me before that there might be a reason why we broke up.. That God has something or someone better for me.. Good thing, I didn't believe them. I proved to them that my boyfriend is really the one for me, if only I would fight for him. I learned a lot of things about what happened with my love life. And it brought me much challenge to face this new relationship.

we can't stop others fall in love .all we can do is to pursue our love. Please be strong when we meet the frustration.and please believe in love ,there will be a perfect one only waiting for you . Everything will pass,save your time today!

just move on!

Thank you for sharing. It's never easy getting your heart broken as well as its even twice as hard in my opinion when you move on from it. I guess most of us could not easily really remember the good times in a relationship if we got our hearts' broken and ripped by the one we trusted not to. It is because we are overpowered by the hurt and anger that we felt when they did it to us. But I believe that there's nothing that time could not heal. It's just a matter of time for one to move on and finally be happy.. but its never easy. As for true love, you are right indeed. Love comes when you least expect it. Mine did. Best of luck

I agree with your well written words. You have explained it very well. It is a sad shame to shut yourself off from love because your heart has been broken. It is true that if it wasn’t meant to be with that particular person then you have learned lessons and you must move on to greater things. There will be another for you and it may well be the one you will be for life, if not keep on moving forward and more importantly do not ever stop loving because if you close your heart, a small part of you will die and what a terrible shame the would be!

Well, it's hard to say about love as love is quite a mysterious thing. Love sometimes could be very very deep that it could be so romantic that it might even hurts you so badly that it might kills oneself. This might be one of the reasons people jumping down from a tall building. Well, I am not very experienced myself on this stuffs but I pretty sure if you really want love, you got to sacrifice something which is be prepare that you have the risk of getting hurt and being ditched by him/her. Well, this depends on the person also whether he/she can accept things of how things goes. Some are like playboys/girls who doesn't get hurt much from that. Well, it's true that once you really get in love there are many good memories which you could keep and that makes you happy every time you think of it. But on the other hand it might hurts also when there are unhappy things. Everything depends on how you see it. If you only keep thinking of the good stuffs everything would be good and there is nothing bad at all. That's the reason why people always say "Think of the good and happy stuffs and forget the bad ones".

this action is so unusual in our country . and every man cannot agree with it if his gf or her bf do this . maybe more in other developed countries. i find in the movie that's general to make love with other people though he or she has had a wife or husband. actually i cannot agree on it. thats so heartache for me. so i must divorce with her if she do this. i am an additional man in our country (china)

if you are from asean country ,then u may think that way ,if you are from eropean or states ,then need not think that way ,there this is part of their life ,,otherwise start a fresh ,do not make this as issue ,life is for happiness enjoy fully ,go ahead ,do not see at back ,u will not get any thing but to loose and repent ,thanks for sharing.

hi,just let hurt go and learn to be happy. The great love affair mybe wait for you somewhere. We used to love each other dearly,at last he left.It take me one and half years to get rid of the shadows.Now,I believe that ture love is closer to me.