Where do you think is the best place to go to to meet a decent man??

Are you going to make a private relationship, or just want to have more guy friends? I think the first thing you should do is find many good guy friends and have a lot of communication with them. From there you can learn their behavior, any type of men available, and sure enough you will get more experience. If you agree to do above, you don't really need to go outside. Like what has been spoken by the first responder, you can visit dating site online, or if you want you can also do a lot of chat with me (I am a public speaker accustomed to dealing with this kind of thing). That way you will get more friends not only from your area, but from abroad, too. But, of course you should go out sometimes. Ask your girl friends to accompany you and you can start by getting along with those guy friends which are friends of yours. I do not recommend you jump into serious relationship first, because you should understand and learn about men. But of course the choice is yours.