so ashamed your friend turned you down....

Hi ABHY14, You seem to have a very generous and kind heart. I am sorry that you had to find out the hard way, friend's betrayal, that people are not always kind and grateful for what others do for them. I don't know how long you two had been friends, or how much you knew about her character before you invited her to live at you home. It is always good to have an idea about someone character before taking such a personal interest in their well being. I admire you for wanting to help her out, but disappointed that you didn't really know her heart. She is an ungrateful individual. I hope this situation will not stop you from being kind to other, but I hope that it has taught you to be a little more careful whom trust. Blessings,

Hi, ABHY14. That is very mean of her to do this to you. After all that you have done for her, and this is how she chose to repay you? Since she did this to you, did you kick her out of your house already? I know that I would have had. No one is going to live off me me for free and then go and lie on me. Now you see her for who she really is. She was just using you all along. I am glad that you caught unto her game! See friends like these, make people skeptical about forming new relationships with others. She will reap what she sow too! You best believe that! Karma is no joke!

I would not call that person a friend.It,s a shsme that this happened to you ABHY. It,s people like this so called friend that makes it hard for people to trust or help anyone anymore. Dont hurt your head, it,s her loss. You sound like an amazing person, keep doing what you do, just in the future be carefull. You,ve now learned the lesson that not everyone that you call friend is really a friend, (and believe me that really sucks).I wish you all the best.

These are people who we call ingrates. Talking about this, I hate people who repay those who helped them, with evil deeds. To be honest, I think your friend is just taking advantage of you. This world is cruel. There are a lot of people like that, doing all sorts of evil deeds just for fun, and for the sake of doing. Some are worst, doing evil deeds just to tarnish the reputation of others, and even doing it to save their faces. It's good that you broke away from that friend. She's just a tumour, remember that.

Shame on your friend! I have experienced that kind of friend before and it's really upsetting. A friend like that? Is not worth keeping. But I have moved on already. Now we're just civil with each other. It's better that way because I don't want the same thing to happen to me again. I learned some lesson from that friendship with her.

Charity comes from the heart. You can't expect your friends to share the same values and ethics that you have about helping one another. So, next time whatever you do...do from the heart with no expectations unless specified.

Some people need a lot of time to get to know what they are really like. I offered my next door neighbour my friendship when she moved in. I did her favours and lots of little kindnesses but she expected me to shop for her, take here here and there and she would find "little jobs for me to do". As if I had nothing to do. But when she started loudly broadcasting my troubles and telling me what I should do I turned my back on her. There were a few nasty episodes where she behaved in a very dramatic way with lots of negativity so I refused to have any dealings with her. She is not someone I can respect and her attitude to the coloured people in our village is not good.

Hi, Feel sad that your friend treat you so bad although you have been fine to her. Nevermind,let it goes and learn from that lesson. Of course, it does not mean you have to treat your other friends bad,you just need to judge that person carefully and not to trust a person so easily. Of course, when your friend do ask for your help, you still can help them,but try to limit up your helps. Do whatever you can and don't force yourself. Don't be sad....and start again with your new life.Takecare.

Take it as charge to experience. It all means that the challenge there is if you are helping people it does not always mean that they will return the good favor to you, it is how you will understand and tolerate that you can't actually please everybody. To that point you must also learn that if we are helping others we should be at least sincere to the extent that we are not expecting something from them. Another thing is that you must recognize the person that you should trust. Helping people must have limitations as well.

It is a shame when someone you consider to be a true friend does things like this to hurt you. Please do not lose faith in people. For the most part, people can be good and don't let this one bad experience make you lose trust in others.

well one thing i can say to say sis, there will still be someone out there who deserves your friendship, cheer up. and for that girl who had done bad thing to you do not worry, i believe i karma, besides it is not your loss anyways

Some friend she is huh?! Jeez, how can she still do that to you when she was almost nothing when you helped her?with these kind of people, just forget about them and when they should need you again, just stay busy. Ignore all texts or emails or ym's. Change your number if possible!

Actually friend can save and friend can kill.Dont say will never be kind again because all what you do is God that will definitely reward you not human being and what happen to you is a lesson for you to understand that in this life people are not to be trust because most of them are traitor.