your man's ex messing around?! if its you what will you do?
@angel_of_charm (4134)
Philippines
September 12, 2010 5:27am CST
So ok, here's what happened, I opened my Facebook account today and surprise! Facebook made me verify my own account to see if I am the real account holder..I was like WTF! then I found out that my account was being accessed few times by another party..So i had to go through a lot of verifying, and so moving on, I made someone detect the IP and we found out that it was my boyfriend's ex!
She dump him like 2 months ago and exchanged him for many guys already that this man I'm with now had tolerated her for his b*tching just because they have a kid..the girl went home to her province and told him she will be there for vacation only for him to find out that she's not coming back to him because she found another love in her province and that's the real reason why she decided to go back to province, not to mention she just met the other guy through chatting online..but my bf begged her to give the relationship another chance, he cried and kneeled but she refused..she even said she didn't loved him at all and that she was never happy being with him.. what a b*atch..My bf got devastated and almost lost his life..
Now that my bf found happiness in me she's trying her best to get him back..what in the hell is wrong with her?! she's even bad mouthing me on her text messages to my bf when I wasn't even saying a word about her because I don't know her and I am not the type! She's been trying to know all my online activities, she knows every little thing about the sites I go through, she texted all the details to my bf on which I wasn't mad at it at first and said so ok no big deal but hacking my accounts?! I think she just started a war. messing my accounts is not fun..
If I were you? what will you do?
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5 responses
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
Hi there Angel of Charm!
What she did to your account was just nasty and downright dirty. And what she did to your boyfriend who was her ex is just plain heartless. I guess what she is doing now can be expected of her behavior as what was manifested in her previous action in her relationship with your boyfriend. I think you should warn her that the next time she messed around, you will take legal actions. try to document the things that she did so that you will have evidence when time comes, though hopefully it doesn't, that you will need them for some suit against her.
@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
I'm starting to freak out of madness..I just cant find any ways not lose control anymore..I had this feeling that she just cannot accept the fact that this man has found happiness with me because she once stated that this man I'm with can never find a woman like her!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
I think it's best to change your password into an even more complicated one with some characters too. i think if the password is eaSY then it's easy to get hacked. i do know a mylotter who has hacked some ones account just to get revenge on her cheating boyfriend.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
Hello Angle,
I think she was way out of line. when it's over, it's OVER. most people would do nasty things to retract their mistake. but doing something wrong just for the sake of Love is not love at all. more like getting rid of sadness and regret by getting the old love life back and doesn't care about others happiness. i think you should asked for a hacker too and get rid of this woman and teach her a lesson about privacy.@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Funny because I was thinking the same way..I wanted to shut all her account down if someone can do that for me see if she'll ever interfere with my accounts again.
@suryachalla (1369)
• India
13 Sep 10
Consult an experienced private eye (detective), or a consulting agency along similar lines, what options you've got. Ask to monitor and record her 'nasty' emails. Check whether you can book a case against her with the police. If you can, make it strong and throw in a few punches and start forming plan B while she recovers from what hit her.
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
How do you detect the IP and how did you know that that was her IP? Im just curious.
Anyway, I remembered the time when my husband's ex also tried to mess up with us. She was also very insecure and wanted to prove that she was better than me. But I didnt argue anymore cause even if people are going to look at our backs, they are going to know who is "matino" between the two of us.
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@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
there are softwares that you can download to detect the IP and also there some experts that can detect it for you..
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
I am just wondering, how did the ex know about your account? I suggest that you DELETE that account and make another one. That is what I am going to do anyway. I will ask my guy to defend me from the girl. If he wont be able to defend me, then I will be doubtful already.I used to have a similar thing before, and it turned out the info that the other girl had CAME FROM my GUY!
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@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
in fairness to bf he is defending me and I believe that's the reason why she's doing all this things because its getting under her skin..about the accounts? bf did mention my full name because she was asking at first and she's actually nice when she asked so proudly the bf gave her my name and i guess she did some research to see what I look like and what I do online
