Will a person escape his/her problem by taking his/her own life???
By Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
Philippines
September 12, 2010 7:45am CST
For me...NEVER will a problem be solved by another problem in the first place. And killing oneself is like running from it that even death can't solve the problem that the person had left behind. Much more he/she even aggrevated the situation by giving more burden to their loveones that need to spend for their burial and all. What do you think guys? No problem will be given to us that we can't handle... especially if God is with us all throughout. Have a blessed day to all and hope that all will turn good in our life :)
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12 responses
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
Peace be upon all,
I agree with your opinion. Killing yourself won't solve any problem. It shows how silly, irresponsible, and coward we are! We have to solve problems, not running away from them!
Let me quote some lessons I took from my religion (translated from my Holy book).
- "God never gives us unsolveable problems." : It means, any kind of problems must have solutions. Perhaps we are not trying hard enough to find it.
- "...after difficulty will come an easy way out." : Means after we face our problems then the way to happiness will show itself.
I believe on those I quoted above. So, never ever kill yourself as your problem solution. You don't know what's to come...
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Sep 10
It depends on the person and their history and way of thinking. If they get defeated easily and haven't the where with all to fight then all is lost at the get go. And some folks, when they get that low, no longer believe in the guy upstairs anyway. And the burden becomes too much for them to handle.
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
it is all a matter of Love, Hope, and Faith...
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@ruthhazel (213)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
NO.. he/she will never escape his/her problems by taking his/her life. If he/she thinks taking life can escape problems its much more problems doing that.
That's right. NO problem God gave to us that we can't handle. All our problems has already has a solutions. Have faith in God.
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
the best for him/her to do is face the problem, one-by-one....
and face by factors, just by piece perhaps...
and more better, if he/she be well have plenty of spirits of Love, Hope, AND, FAITH...
@bloemart (222)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Taking your own life in solving problems is the most stupid things I have heard in my whole life. You know you can't solve your problem if you do it. You can solve your problem by thinking wisely. You can solve your problem by your own, in any problems there are solutions. You can also be strong in dealing those. Remember we are like knife that you can sharp in rough surface not in a velvet one.
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Taking one's life is a mortal sin. Maybe you've escaped your problem here on earth but where is your soul headed to? I agree to you when say that no problem can be solved by another problem. and yes Gos will not give it to you if He knows you can't handle it, He is loving God and He wont forsake His children. Taking your life would never be an answer to anything, it would only be another's burden (those who loves you and believes in you)
@maniquark1 (8)
• India
13 Sep 10
according to me every problem have a solution.There s no use of keep on worrying about the problem.Instead of that think what are the possible ways to solve the problem.In case of personal problems we should solve it more carefully and take immense time.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
12 Sep 10
We all have problems in our lives to face. Some are easy to conquer while others are not. The thoughts of taking our lives to end our problems never solves the problem. All we have escaped from is life. The problem can still remain. What we do next may just enhance the problem and pass it on to someone else. Taking our lives is never the solution to anything.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
Yeap, I do agree with you that killing yourself won't solve any problems. But sometimes, people's way of thinking is just different from us. We cannot expect them to think the way we think.
For me, every problem that come can be solved. As long as you still awake and you are still breathing everything is gonna be okay.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
13 Sep 10
That's a no for me. Taking one's life is never a solution to anything, except for themselves. Once they die, that's the end of their own problems, but it's the start for people around them. They are just like forcing on their personal problems to innocent parties, just based on relationships, kinship or even friendship tied to them. It's very unfair.
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Yes I agree with you, God is always with us! any problem that may come in our life has reasons and that is for you to become strong...and it's all up to you on how to deal with it but what was most important thing if you encountered such problem is you PRAY! so that god will give you wisdom on how to deal with it and become strong upon facing with it.
@visualtissue (39)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
it's not gonna end any problem... only generates more of it, and inflict it to a lot of people
@fraulein (12)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
a big no no! life is all what we have when everything around us are going down the floor. taking his/her own life is wasting the person in you and the person that your parents have been building since you were born. problems are inevitable. yeah, it maybe a kind of pain in our part but it also act as a spice in our life. without it, im pretty sure that we couldnt feel any happiness. problem gives contrast in our life it emphasizes the good things around us. well, life is just a borrowed thing from God, so just imagine, someone borrowed your phone then returns it broken. how would you feel? we are born for a certain a reason. we may not be sure of that reason now but atleast we are just of one thing, taking our life is not part of the reason of living. :)