Do you have a strong relation with any without even a meeting.
By 1anurag1
@1anurag1 (3576)
India
September 12, 2010 1:11pm CST
Do you have a strong relation with any without even a meeting.
I am not sure if those relation can be ever so strong with out even a single meet. I think physically meeting is more and better for any relation rather than a virtual connection. I think we must consider all these things for any relation. What are your experiences.
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7 responses
@vandana7 (100535)
• India
13 Sep 10
Hi anurag, we have to accept we are a strange blend. :) If we look forward to our virtual relationship to culminate in some physical bonding, then we are more likely to be disappointed, just like we would be disappointed if we marry a beautiful individual who has little else to bring in to marriage. Somewhere along the way, we have to accept whether we want the physicality more or companionship more. If we have a clear margin in this priority, then whether we meet the person or not, we would still enjoy a good relationship. But this is my view. You are welcome to disagree.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
13 Sep 10
No i don't have this kind of relationship with anyone.. because i don't much believe on anyone.. whose i never met in my life.. because sometimes you get sorrow.. when a person try to give hurt you.. so i don't believe on this type of person..
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@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
12 Sep 10
I think that anything is possible to be honest. It all depned on the person that are in the realtionship. For me I tend to be more hands on with the person I am with so for me I think it would never work, but I will say my current boyfriend was in prison and we were still together and sent letters and talked on the phone. So maybe I could but I would have to already know them in real life before I was actually having a far away relationship. Those are my thoughts on the matter.
Happy mylotting as always
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Sep 10
I have some bonding relationships here on myLot. I can't say either one of us are ready to say let us visit one another. But I believe it is possible to bond and have long term relationships with people online.
Caution to the word of the wise, always be careful though.
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@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Sep 10
Yes...I do have a couple of friends one is in the Philipines, I met him online and we have been good friends. We havnt even seen each other but we chat and sent messages on FB. I have another friend who is in India, I have seen her only only once and i have spoken to her on the phone for hours togather. I am still in contact with her and it has been 7 years now that we are friends.
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@teresa_everich (36)
• United States
12 Sep 10
I have had a good amount of "online friends" growing up and right now I have two very good friends that I have never met in real life. I believe it's totally possible to have a very real connection with someone you've never met face to face. of course you're really putting yourself out there, you have no idea if what they tell you about themselves is true after all but i think most people aren't lying over the internet.
when it comes to a romantic relationship though, it gets tricky. in a romantic relationship physical touch and being able to be with each other is very important, even something as simple as a kiss. But i do believe it's possible to fall in love with someone you only know online but you should try to meet.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I have many chatmates before, but never had a strong relationship with them. The relationship is just virtual. It is possible though that I can be good friends with them and some times they will court me. But, that is not my thing. I still want a relationship with someone I met in person.