boy/girl you love says he wants be priest/nun O_O what do you do?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 12, 2010 3:55pm CST
hi guys^^ if boy/girl you love wants to be a priest/nun would you stop them? ahah about me if i had a bf i would stop him for sure. i cant lose him :( also if he loves me really couldnt do that^^ bcs in true love people cant be apart^^ what about you guys? what would you do? please share^^ 
4 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
you shouldnt talk that way with me. i just said my opinion and yes in true love nothing can put both people apart. anyway if he wanted to be a priest would mean he wasnt the right guy for me after all. and before judging my opinion think that if you loved a guy so much and he wanted to leave you to be a priest if you would be happy with that.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
but alia i would just ask him to stay and love me one time^^ if he didnt want to i would let him go sure. i wouldnt interfere in his happiness. everyone has the right to make their own decisions but i loved him i had to at least try to say please stay. but if he wanted go sure^^ im not selfish at all^^ i always care for my bf own good^^
@AliaKane (97)
• United States
17 Oct 10
If he was candid with his decision with me, I'll reluctantly but lovingly let him go. It's not like he will forget you and you will forget him. Just a dignified, distant relationship. Of course, I'll be very happy for him.
I know it's your opinion, but don't you think it's selfish and fanticiful to interfere with what he sees as his "higher calling" to do good.
@Beautyfactor (1512)
•
17 Oct 10
If it was what my loved one really wanted to do then I would not stand in their way. I think it would be very selfish to try and stop them from living their life the way they wanted to.
There is a saying that states if you truly love someone you should let them go, and I definately would. I would not want to be the person stopping someone I loved from persuiting their dreams.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
sure you wouldnt force him to be with you^^ i understand that but maybe you would say are you sure? and that you love him. sure that you wouldnt accept that so easy if he said that. you would be a bit chocked right? is not easy to accept that. i would ask my bf to dont do that bcs i love him but if he wanted to sure i would respect. but i wanted him to know how i felt before he decides. we have the right to fight also for love^^
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
14 Feb 11
Well, I would never go out with someone so out of his or her mind to want to be a religious slave. When I go out with someone, I want that person to be intelligent, apart from having a cute face, and doing something like that is very far from having even a little bit of intelligence.
If a person I'm going out with said that, it's clear. I would end up that relationship.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Sep 10
Good thing I won't be experiencing that 
because I doubt it if my boyfriend wants to be a priest. But then if I am on other's shoes then it really happens I would evaluate him first. I admit that this would be the hardest challenge that I will ever encounter for it is really hard to lose someone else you really love. But if he is 100% decided in the sense that he has his strong feeling about the God's calling then of course I can't do anything 
but to respect his decision. At least I know he is in the right path that has something to do to serve God.
because I doubt it if my boyfriend wants to be a priest. But then if I am on other's shoes then it really happens I would evaluate him first. I admit that this would be the hardest challenge that I will ever encounter for it is really hard to lose someone else you really love. But if he is 100% decided in the sense that he has his strong feeling about the God's calling then of course I can't do anything but to respect his decision. At least I know he is in the right path that has something to do to serve God. @sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
ahah im happy that your bf wont become a priest ahah i guess maybe he is too sassy for that bcs you laugh with that thought ahah^^ 
anyway sure would be a hard situation and i would try to convince my bf to forget that idea^^ anyway sure we would have to respect if was really important. but even we were sad that would just mean that he didnt love us enough and wasnt the right guy^^ so we should wait for the right one^^ 
i guess maybe he is too sassy for that bcs you laugh with that thought ahah^^ anyway sure would be a hard situation and i would try to convince my bf to forget that idea^^ anyway sure we would have to respect if was really important. but even we were sad that would just mean that he didnt love us enough and wasnt the right guy^^ so we should wait for the right one^^ 