Do you judge people?
@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
United States
September 12, 2010 11:08pm CST
I do. I say this because I do judge people by their look, how they sound, how they act, how they mingle with people, how they dress, how they talk, how they express their mind, and everything else that I can sense about a person. It won't be accurate or maybe not even close to what they really might be but that's how I become friends with people, make enemies, compete, and play around. Do you eat potatoes?
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@jasminetea (133)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
yes I judge people specially if they have a position in the office with a lot of so called "trainings in handling staffs and co-employee" but in turn do not even know how to deal with simple issues concerning co-employee.
I eat potatoes.
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@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Another potato eater, yey!
That is a struggle for some people, to deal with these kind of things. I don't know what to say to you but good luck in your office I hope you find a way to adapt to your environment.
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@payout (3794)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Woo go potatoer eaters haha.. Thatis funny haha. How you just throw that last question in the end.. And by the way why did you start a similar discussion when you have a tag o. This discussion that saids judgmental don't you think thats weird but okay just thinking haha. More thinking. I just hope they don't delete this discussion or other one
@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
13 Sep 10
That one is slightly different than this one because here I'm asking you if you judge people and on the other one I'm trying to see how people will react to my judgement of them where I said I think they are judgmental. This one is an interview and the other one is like a test. I like throwing those random questions to keep things fresh.
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@Smiitner (33)
• United States
13 Sep 10
I try really hard to judge people, but I DO sum people up when I meet them. It took me a few years to realize that not everyone is who they are at the surface level, and that judging them just doesn't serve me any use anymore. I decide who a person is once they open up to me on a personal level. Before that, the verdict is out. Interesting topic... I like these thinking questions.
And yes, I eat potatoes.
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@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Yeah, it is called first impression. You paid attention to my last question, that's good because many people here sometimes have selective reading and only answer the topic question. Good night.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Sep 10
I'm sorry for you.By being this Judgmental you will Assume many wrong things. You will miss out on good friends and make lifelong enemies. You make me Glad you can't see me or you would delete me in a minute!
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Sep 10
The last time I judged a person Just byy their appearance was in highschool. I saw my Orchestra teacher and thought he would be mean and he wasn't. I haven't judge a person ever since.I have to spend time with you and Then I form my opinion.
@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Yeah I see many things not right at the first time but that doesn't mean it won't change but your first impressions are important to me because they last the longest in their mind. When you meet a person there is always an impression like she's pretty, he's cool, he stinks, etc, etc, and things like that,do you not notice that? I think that is judgement and if you don't know what I mean I would think of you differently.
Imagine if you were in a train, and you see a group of big guys and the bus was pretty much just you and them then they sat around close to you. What would you be thinking on that situation? You don't have to answer that I just want you to think.
Actually that is how I met my best friend and my buddies. Were all open to judgement and accept the words spoken because if you can't accept things you can't move on and will just be angry. My circle of friends are very honest, direct to the point and I like them as they are like that because it's funny. Were all cool with it. To us honesty is the best policy.
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@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
16 Sep 10
It's either you are not a fan of reality or you just love lies? I guess you don't like honesty either huh?
Anyway we can always judge it's just that some people don't like other people's judgement which can lead to an argument which may cause conflict among people. What people don't like is knowing what others think.
@payout (3794)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Do I judge people, no I don't have that right i was told don't judge anyone because you are bot god, GOD is the only one to judge people. Like you say people judge by looks and the way they dress and sound, act so much more. Yes we are human and some pele may consider it as a normal human nature. You judge people God will judge you and put you in the spot and in the spot light.
Me on the other hand I have judge people in the past. I have change and learn why judge people because it's not fun when people judge you. To me in the end GOD. Made us in his image and we are all beautiful why because god made us.
And do I eat potatoes yes .. Lol their good
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@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
13 Sep 10
So you don't look at first impressions anymore, huh? You answered the potato question, nice.
Anyway can you think about my questions real quick? here it is: If you are human then who told you that you are human? Would you say that everyone is human because if you do then you are judging us based on how we are the same as you are? You don't have to answer I just want you to think. Good night.
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@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
14 Sep 10
But isn't your judgement the only way you determine who is your friends, who is nice, who is respectful, who did bad things, who to talk to? When you say things like "You are my friend" I think that is a form of judgement because you are judging them by your relationship. I would say that is judging a person. That is just me trying to prove my stand but I'm not trying to change your view.
@payout (3794)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Well to me human is just a name but God I describe us as Man. So I guess some random person decided to put hu on front of man and called us as one but yeah I'm just thinking to think. I don't think judging people is right, because I been through so many situations where people judge and months or years later there are in that same realation
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@sxpython2222 (23)
• India
13 Sep 10
It's our human sinful nature.
Do what only what I want to do.
Say and listen to what I have to say and I'll only listen to what I want to hear.
Get to know someone only if it makes me look better or if getting to know them will help me out in any way.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
14 Sep 10
That is why others told me that I am actually a judgmental that I totally judge people as well. Sometimes I am being prejudice as my boyfriend told me. Sometimes I am right and it became accurate but sometimes my judgment proved me wrong. It just so depends on the person.
@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
14 Sep 10
We can't be right all the time and that is how we learn. Everyone judges people because even if they say they are not judgmental or they will not judge the person right away, as they are knowing that person they will judge them to a certain trait, I think everyone judges it's just the way they interpret it that they think they are better.
@Chocoholic (85)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
Yeah, Sometimes I just know that the person is bad, arrogant or kind from the first I met that person. But I often ignore it until that person show his/her true face. First impression mostly true.