unFair!

Philippines
September 13, 2010 1:41am CST
others say that it's wrOng to lose someone you lOve and you should fight for your lOve..But the wrong is when you are going yo fight for your lOve for him?whiLe him is nOt fighting for you..it's unfair!
5 responses
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
You have to have reason for fighting also. If you think the person still loves you then i guess that is enough reason to fight for your love. But if the person wants freedom from you because there is no more feelings left for you anymore then it is useless to fight for it.
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Relationship is a two player love game. You can't win in a relationship with only one fighting and holding on. yes it is unfair to be left alone struggling top keep the relationship alive, so if you think the other one has already let go then you should know that at that point game is over. you could still love but don't expect anything in return just yet.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I guess this is the time when you have to stop fighting for him. You should know what fight is to go and what fight is to stop. If he is not fighting with you anymore then stop.
@Sakura24 (175)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I believe that love is one of the most mysterious thing in this world. I comes in an unexpected event, time and person. If you love that person, it is like he is your air that somehow you can't breathe without him. It is also the best feeling that the person whom you love also reciprocate your love. It is a thing that can't be learned nor it can be taught to anyone. Sometimes, people get hurt because things won't work but if both people really love one another then they should fight for their love. Somehow, they will realize that not being with the other person will hurt them more than their pride. But, what can really hurt more is fighting and loving someone who can't love you in return. You can't run after that person if he doesn't want you. You can't fight for him because he doesn't appreciate it. The best thing to do is give up. Not to give up to love but still love by giving up. You love that person that you are willing to sacrifice your heart to make him happy. That is where the true strength of love come true. That is where true love can e measured.
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Did you talk to him about this? Maybe he have his reasons. Or is the love really worth fighting for? It might be you're so in love with him but he's not. It's so hard if it's a one-sided kind of love. The one who gives too much love will end up being hurt always. Try reflecting.