How do you handle your relationship?

in my present relationship... im both a giver and a receiver. well it needs to be in balance. if its not then the relationship will not work. its good my husband is a giver and a receiver also. we dont usually have fights. instead we focus on our what to do in our everyday lives amnd the future of our children

I can say that I am the "giver". I just give what i can,love, time, effort, understanding etc. I thought we will last forever. But sometimes, no matter how much effort and love you give. If you really not meant for each other, you will end up you relationship.

i am more of being a giver and most of all, i avoid being a complainer. coz i realized some couples when they get to a confrontation, the one that gave the most (at least he believes so) usually starts saying "if i didn't... you would have been...." and i just love giving instead of expecting anything in return. but of course some issues come out because i wouldn't know what my partner wants more? then comes the communication. thanks and enjoy yourself at mylot.

I have always tried to have give and take in my relationships. Anything less and the relationship will have a hard time succeeding. You have to nurture a relationship to make it last.

Most of the time when we are arguing my partner was the ones who is easily give up since he is tired of arguing with me. But we can still settle it since my boyfriend voice out his understandings and patient to me.

if I, I'll treat my lady become a queen. and I hope she can serve me like a king. :) Take and give too. Because in relationship we must give totally what we have and we can get what she/he have.

i don't know because i don't keep track whether i'm the giver or he's the giver more often.... but i think whether i'm the giver or the receiver it's still okay because it's out of free will nobody forced the two of us to do what we do, to give what we give away, and we freely receive and feel thankful for whatever we get.

I won't call it a give and take relationship. If I did then I would have been comparing it with a business. It is more like balancing everything. However, what I do for my boyfriend is out of love and I usually do not want anything in return. He does the same for me. We both are actually very cautious about love and have a strong opinion about those who only take without giving. They are selfish in our eyes. What I notice is that everything becomes equal in what we do for each other. For instance, if I go to buy foods he gets the drinks. It is more like sharing.

I'm more of a giver which is not a good thing most of the time.

Well me I am equal.For you to have a good relationship you should know to balance things.Before loving someone you should love your self first before loving him/her more than your life.

My first relationship just lasted for 4 months because of my ignorance about love. At that time,i didn't know how to care, amuse and tolerate her which means obviously that i was a receiver.So after that,i try my best to improve,but now it still doesn't work for me.It's not that i still don't consider on my partner's side. I think there must be some deeper reasons.

I am both, thanks to my partner. for a relationship to work both of you should be in play. there would always be someone who'd tend to give more but make sure that you balance things out. i communicate with my boyfriend in all way possible, i try to be honest to him at all times so he would trust me more. and in every way i could show him i love him, i do that, i never miss a chance to say i love u. and he does the same for me.

I can say I'm more of the reciever. I'm giving, but my man is giving more (well from my view) and I can see that he really loves me and I appreciate it.