50% love, 30%doubt and 20% hatred...

Philippines
September 13, 2010 4:17am CST
its quite a while that i have been feeling this way towards my guy... how could i possibly get over with this and end up into the feeling of 100% love? "im so confuse and don't know what is the right decisions to be make"....
4 responses
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I know the feeling because I felt the same 2 years ago. Don't be confuse because the love is still 50% so that means you still love him. I know there's a reason for everything, go ask him and if you think he is telling you the truth why don't you give him another chance.
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
do i really have to hold on with this relationship because of the 50% love?
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I think you should figure out why you're feeling that way. Break it down to smaller factors. Is it really hatred that you feel, or maybe it's just disappointment or frustration? Then ask yourself how you can turn that negative feeling back to something positive. Maybe, in order to do that, you should talk with him. When it comes to doubt, I guess we all doubt one time or another. Has he done something that made you doubt him? If yes, then you two should talk about it. Maybe he's not aware that he did something wrong. At least, if you talk, then he can change his ways and lett you trust him again. In a relationship, it's not all 100% love always. That's why a relationship is dynamic. It makes you feel good emotions as well as bad emotions, at one time or another. In times like these, it's best to talk with your guy. It takes the both of you to work at your relationship. Like they say, communication is key. Maybe you're just feeling left out by your guy. If you talk about it, then maybe he can do what needs to be done to make you feel the love again.
• Philippines
14 Sep 10
hi there jonnifc... i know why i am feeling this way, because he cheated on me once...and he asked for a second chance thats why we continued our relationship... but it is still here in my nerves the memories of that incident....i still cannot get over with it, thats why i have this feelings....what should i do?
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
you should find out first where the 30%doubt and 20%hatred is coming from. Has he done something to make you doubt? is this doubt of your feelings for him or doubt of his faithfulness? now if this is all about him then you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. this is your relationship, if you need to solve something you should do it together. hear him out and speak your thoughts, no hiding of things, no pretensions.
@Joeyre (20)
• China
13 Sep 10
I don't believe there is 100% love. but it's a little troublesome of a love with 30% doubt and 20%hatred. there may be doubt in love to some degree but love should not be mingled with hatred. where does ur doubt and hatred come from? only when u make clear of this question can u make a right decision.