That guy is hunk!!! --- men
By bokal2703
@bokal2703 (802)
Philippines
September 13, 2010 9:48am CST
Women often admire other women,for instance, a pretty, gorgeous and fit lady pass by, we often express our compliment openly like, "that girl is so beautiful and sexy." we do not hesitate to show our appreciation with what we see on other women. However, men are different, rarely or maybe, never will you ever heard them say, that guy is handsome. what do you think must be the reason aside from the fear of being misinterpreted them as gays?
7 responses
@theplanner (298)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Hahaha! I have to laugh at that last line but it's definitely true! Well aside from being misinterpreted as gays, it's their PRIDE. If they find some guy much attractive than them they're on denial so they just let it pass and not say any word. I should know I have so many guy friends in college and I asked one of them the same question as you're asking now. It's the THREE-letter-word thing that I can't type here because myLot says I have selected a mature content and so I must change it. Duh? Okay just shuffle this letters and you'll get it. O-G-E. :)
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
yeah, got it. =) and I also thought about that, I guess they really have a harder time accepting that there are guys who look better than them eh? =)
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Hello bokal2703,
Majority of it is gay. They are jealuous too like us girls to give a guy a compliment like that. Or it make them look like sissy. The other idea is they are not brought to say those things to a guy they may say he is brawny or huge but that as far it may go. Huge as in tall or muslce men etc... and they do not want make there lady or wife or girlfriend seem there guy is lacking in any department.
Thanks and have a great day
Sincerley Unique16
@theplanner (298)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I figured it out already...that message prompted because of the word "gays" without the s, so just add s to it so you could respond. I thought it was the "ego" word.
@Manojknair (603)
• India
15 Sep 10
I don't think Guys who look like a hunk are gays. First time I am hearing this. There may be a perception like this in the inner mind of some people. Even I have seen many times Girls admiring a handsome guy rather than telling him a gay. One question to be a gay, a guy need to be handsome ? No... he should be ready for that ....that's all . His mannerism can tell what sort of a person he is.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
I think this is something to do with being the Alpha male. Every man wants to be the best. They hate to admit it but more often than not they are always vying to be the best among the group. And, maybe, admitting vocally(especially with their peers listening) that a particular man is a good looking one, means accepting defeat.
But, they don't mind voicing out their opinions that a particular actor is really a hunk. A movie star or anybody more handsome than them is quite acceptable, that they can live with it.LOL
@luxlyangels (1286)
•
1 Oct 10
O ladies do say it at times to men too.
i for myself have heard it a couple of times.
bact to the subject matter,well i think guys compliment but not as often as ladies and yes for the fear ob being gay or also they dont just like doing it to other guys or something.They may say it but not when the person in particular is in front of them.
@romania2 (237)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Women do say it when they think other women (or men) are attractive. It's the way we were brought up, I guess. Society accepts it, plus men like fantasizing about women being with women. There's a saying that women don't really dress for men, they dress for other women. It's like showing who is the most attractive, but not to men... to women!
As for men calling other men attractive. It is just not done. Society feels awkward about it even though it's perfectly alright. I would want more guys to compliment other guys, but I guess that would take a few more centuries.
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
well maybe they are not just used to appreciating their kind. they focus too much on looking to women that they don't really notice the other side. and yes it is not too manly to give remarks like "that guy is hot". :)
