bf/gf was a thief in the past. will you still date him/her?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
9 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
ohh :( thanks for your answer. im sad that you wouldnt accept bcs the person was honest. it was only the past. you dont know if someday you will need to steal food or something. we never know what we will do in future. also waste love bcs of a sad past someone had? then you never loved this person bcs love is accept the person how she is^^
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
13 Sep 10
Hi dear,
Everyone will fight for their own people, even if they are guilty. You just asked about a thief. There are people do lots of unpardonable crimes and cruel criminals around and there are people after them to save them at any cost by throwing money and unjustful justifications.
So, in your statement, once he was a thief, and he identified his error and become a new person. If he is understand his mistakes and got ready to rectify his mistakes, then we should accept him.
We all are one way or there like that only. If no one knows, anyone can do anything. That is the law of nature, which we can around.
So, go ahead, everyone may do it by circumstances and will become good after when they are mingled with good people. So you are there as a good person, make him to the line of goodness.
Regards,
Thank-s
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
yes thats what i meant^^ people can change and we cant judge people by their past^^ past is past and we all make mistakes and can change^^ also he admit his mistake what is a big thing^^ i wouldnt waste a chance to be happy just bcs of a sad past and is like you say we dont know our future^^ right now we dont steal but maybe if we were in the street with noone to help us and we were desperate we dont know what we would do. so we must never judge others bcs we dont know our future^^ also love is accept person with all their mistakes^^ thanks for your answer^^
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
If you truly love a person, you'll accept everything about him/her . everything which includes his past regardless of how he was. I do believe that people change. Even if he may be a thief in the past, if he is a changed person already, then he deserves that chance to prove himself that he is no longer how he was in the past. So yes, I'll still date him. 
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
thats very cute mee that you would still date him^^ me too i would bcs everyone deserves a second chance and a past like this is note easy to share for sure so if he told me the truth is bcs im important to him^^ so would be a stupid if i didnt accept a guy just bcs a reason like that^^ thanks so much for your answer^^ have a happy day^^
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
YES EVEN SHE a thief i will give she second chance but if the habbit is not cure i never date with she again never , the condition make she a thief .
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
ohh i see what you mean^^ yes if she didnt change and lied to you i understand you would leave her^^ but if she was changed you could be happy so im happy you would still date and see how things would happen^^ is nice to know that^^ love must not be wasted bcs of a past mistake^^ thanks for your answer^^ and wish you find a sweet girl to you^^
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
everyone can change.. and whatever their past is they deserve to love and to be loved. yes, i would still date him, it takes courage for someone to say the truth. i might be cautious at first but of-course i will not date someone who i barely know.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
yes sure^^ we wont date someone we barely know^^ but you are right bcs if he said the truth is bcs he really loved you so sure you had to accept him^^ we all make mistakes and we cant be judged for our past forever^^ everyone changes^^ and im happy you also would date a guy like this^^ many people just judge and dont even think in feelings the other person have and how would be if they were the thieves and person they loved didnt accept them for this reason? would they like it? for sure not^^ so we must always give second chances bcs we also dont know what we will do in our future^^ also waste a chance to be loved bcs of a bad past? thats a nonsense^^ thanks for your answer^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
so sad that you would judge her bcs of her past. she was a different person now. if it was you. imagine that you had to steal to survive? sometimes we cant judge bcs we never know how our future will be. about me i wouldnt waste a chance to be with someone i care about just bcs of his past. past is past. thanks for your answer anyway.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Well, at least he didn't kill sweetie. every one is a theif in their own way. probably the kind of thief that steals important things.people do things for a reason and they don't have to explain themselves except to their loved ones.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
13 Sep 10
I think if any girls want to remove their past mistakes.. that what she done in past life.. and now she want to live a happy life.. and want to go with me on date.. then i will go.. yes.. their is no any problem to go with her on a date..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
aww so sweet^^ im happy that you would still go with her^^ yes it was only her past and she is different now^^ i dont know why some people would waste love just bcs someone's past. we never know what we can do and for sure we wont want people to judge us if we change^^ about me i would accept bcs is also not easy to tell that to someone so if you tell is bcs the person is important to you^^ thanks for your answer^^
@doc_air (53)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
haha. It depends. If he told me that he was a professional thief before I won't date him anymore because he might do the same thing again. BUt If I really love the guy, I might reconsider as long as he has no pending case that might put as in danger in the future.
