Tell them or Tell Them Not-

Canada
September 13, 2010 4:24pm CST
What would you do, if you were completely in love with one of your very best friends whom you have dated a few times. Even though you know all their issues, all their quirks yet don't care? How would you handle the situation if you knew that they are better off single do to their own issues. Yet you love them despite them all? How would you go about telling this person, that you love them for who they are problems and all, and would be there for them no matter what happened or anyone said? Or would you stand beside them, watch them fumble time and time again. With out being completely honest with them on how you feel about them?
1 response
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Since you say you are in love with the person, then go right ahead tell this person. Remember that when we love we compromise. So telling this person, hopefully it is reciprocated. I would certainly suggest that a bit of discussion takes place and both can learn to muddle through any compromises. Good luck.
Cookiebear
@Cookiebear (159)
• Canada
14 Sep 10
Thanks, we have talked off and on about it, I do believe he does love me. Though he's not exactly the commitment guy atm, and has a lot to get through. I just want him to know that I am an option if that time ever does come. He is the only one, I know who just know's when there is something wrong. Is always there even when I don't call on him, and no matter what and when we argue to the point of no talking is the only person I know who comes back in a drop of a dime no questions asked and no need to forgive the other. Though maybe I will talk to him about it next chance I get, and see what he thinks.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Great idea at least this way you know where you stand in terms of a full relationship.
Cookiebear
@Cookiebear (159)
• Canada
16 Sep 10
So, I talked to him a few days ago. I had to practically spell it out for him to actually get what I was trying to. Do you know what he said to it? He said he had already knew how I felt but was waiting for me to admit that I still had feelings for him, and he told me he still loved me as well. So we are talking more texting a lot. Only time will tell how things turn out. Though I am so glad I got it off my chest and told him how I felt. :)