Stupid Love
By crisybomb
@crisybomb (172)
Philippines
September 14, 2010 9:24am CST
Love is all around us. We can feel love in all places, country, states, community, church, street, school and everywhere, but love started at home with our parents love and guidance.
Its nice to know that you are in love and being love by a person. Friendship love that turns into love relationship and became couple are luckily turn the relationship into marriage and live happily for their lives.
But there are some who sacrifice love. Loving a person is nice but what if the one you love doesn't love you back?
Is love stupid for loving a person so much though it seems that person doesn't even care. Or just let it happen and soon the person will love you too.
But when? When will he love you?
Until when are you willing to wait for his/her love?
4 responses
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
15 Sep 10
I believe that there is no such thing about stupid love but it is on the person. I could say stupid when loving a person that you think he/she does not deserve to you. Example there is that person hurt you, even cheated so many times, and disrespecting you but then you are still expecting for a change for this person.
Love is not just about the happiness but it must have the responsibility to take the risk as well. You must be willing to sacrifice in the sense that if there would be a challenge that will come to you and to your partner then the both of you must willing to face it and solve the problem. The other person as well should not live his/her partner on the air to solve the responsibility. They shouldn't escape the problems by doing wrong things.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
15 Sep 10
If the reason is all about being irresponsible then I have no second thoughts. Because that is one of the traits that I should give importance. I am willing to sacrifice with someone I love but not with the irresponsible one. How could we settle in the first place if he can't take the risk or responsibility.
@crisybomb (172)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
metatronik does it mean if your partner left you all alone, it means you shouldn't wait for him/her to come back? because he/she is an irresponsible partner?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
14 Sep 10
No crisy, love is not stupid. It is our emotions that cause us to not listen to the brain.
Our hearts are way stronger than our brains and when it dictates love sometimes we do not think clearly.
you willing to wait for his/her love? I would say life make you stronger and there is only so much time one can continue to follow their heart. So I have to say as I became older I became more loyal to my brain as opposed to my heart.
@crisybomb (172)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Is there any possible way to forget your love? by just throwing the love like a garbage?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
15 Sep 10
I do not believe the caring person can forget. It is funny though that the opposite person sure makes us feel as if there was no true meaning to the love.
Personally I believe that the person who says they no longer think about or care about the love is truly untruth. I believe they out of ego say this. They perhaps will never verbalize it but they have a conscious and that conscious is something they have to live with.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
love is stupid, indeed.it knows no boundaries, limitations, race or social status. once it hits you, it hits you real bad. but eventhough how stupid it may seem, love makes us all happy and lets us see the world in different spectrum of light!!
@Hannah10 (83)
• Philippines
14 Sep 10
stupid love how interesting!!!!as of in my experience im just 18 years old madly fall in love with my best friend....hoping that he might going love me back but until now i can't feel that he want's me as her girlfriend,,he has someone else and it's to hurt with me but what can i do im waiting and begging some love with him,,i know he loves me but just her sister nothing else..