I should Open my Heart again..It's been closed for a long time....

uuummm, okay let me see here. You have a ticking biological clock. You miss something in the morning when you wake up? Get a girls, sweetie. PS: Keep me up to date, okay. TATA.

I do NOT mean this as to discourage you!!! However, I feel the need to point out to you that a person just doesn't decide it's time to fall in love again & then find the person of their dreams!!! Love finds you NOT the other way around!!! I agree that you need to open your heart once again or it could make it difficult for you to find the love you seem to desire. Trying to force love is even MORE lonely than not being loved!!! I believe you need to date some in order to find your one true love. This person my be walking past you on the street EVERY day but you've just not paid attention. So, I strongly suggest that you start dating in hopes of finding love in place of deciding it's time you fall in love again!!! Good luck as I know the feeling of being lonely. I also know the feeling of needing love & being even lonelier. Lonelier is MUCH MORE harmful than just lonely!!!

Hi, LK. I never thought you have a muchy side. LOL. Good luck on the search my friend.

You better do so, I mean get into a serious relationship before your comfort zone overtake you. When you are too comfortable for too long in your bachelorhood the chances are you'll be too lazy to entertain the idea of having to move on and create a serious relationship. Time waits for no man. Though men do not need to watch their biological clock but women are becoming more choosy these days. Why wait until your situation forced you to take the second best. When you are at your prime age, you have all the lovely young ladies to pick and choose.

Letran, I really don't know you well, but got some kind of idea through Elaine about your faith. I won't tell you to remain single, not if that isn't G♥d's will, but I will remind you that you need to give it over to G♥d. Let Him be your first love and since you desire a relationship with a woman, I believe He will provide the right one for you..I hope I haven't offended you, and will pray for your emptiness to to filled..:)

Oh man! I've got the same condition like you like a year ago. It was not good, ideed, but tell you what? It will be your new experience! Just try it and see the result! Of course the success rate is 50/50, so do your best and don't forget, ask God to guide you... May you find your soulmate soon!

hi letran as a guy who befriends stray cats you deserve to meet a lovelygirl, fall head over heel in love, and get married. We all have a special person that we will meet one day and we will know that person when we see her or him.I doubted I would ever find Mr.Right but one fine day I was 31 and he came into view as the orderly assigned to help me make surgical beds that morning. I knew immediately that he was the right person. We fit it off at once ,fell in love and were married six weeks later.you may feel a little pain but a lot more happiness and a feeling of finally being completely whole. We had 33 years of marriage, then he had a hear attack so now I have been widowed for a number of years.

hello Letran, Ok,good find the missing link . you're still young my dear brother and...yes,there is nothing wrong for finding love. who knows,it is just around the corner waiting for your glimpses Keep us update please

We should never try to live with a closed heart. it can be very trying to open it again. We can miss so much of a life if we close our hearts off to it. There will be pain along with the joy, but that is just part of life. An open heart will lead to an open door. It may just be where we need to go.

For me it is better so that you where not alone.

Well I hope that everything goes well with you and that you find what you are looking for that's how life is sometimes we all have to go on a journey to find that emptiness with in us and try to fill in that void, but yeah hope you are successful.

I think you need to have someone to make you feel special...I mean to have a partner, to love each other. It feels so great to be in love.

Dude first off, you are going to find her. It may be tomorrow, next month or next year; but you will find her. If you try to hard too look for her, you are going to either end up with a "crazy," chick, or turn a girl off because acting like that would not be acting like yourself. I think it's awesome that you realize what you want. No matter how young or old you are, you shouldn't ever be in a hurry when it comes to making decisions about what you truly want in life. The saying about finding someone when you least expect it is usually true though, so get out there and date. Just don't get out there and search. Start dating first. Make yourself want to date more than you want to fall in love. Falling in love is the best, and people should be jealous that you get to find it with such a clear perspective of what you want now. You aren't a jerk because you haven't followed what everyone else is doing. Trust me, a lot of them aren't as happy as they seem. You just haven't found the person that makes you only want to be with her and no one else. Just because you have dated a gorgeous girl, or a smart girl; or even a girl that on the outside seemed perfect for you still doesn't mean she is the right girl. Whether you just weren't ready or not, has nothing to do with the fact that she probably wasn't the girl you were meant to be with. Don't use excuses, because you don't need them. People love to judge other people in order to make themselves feel better. That is why some individuals around you have questioned why you aren't following the same life plan they are. I commend you for not just going out and getting married to a girl you don't fully love. Men and women both, marry people and have children with those people for the wrong reasons. There is no time limit on finding happiness, but there is a time limit on coming into someone's life and negatively effecting it for a life time. You have been through things like everyone else. Thank God you chose to take some time for yourself and reevaluate things. Whether that time was out of fear or avoidance doesn't matter. In the end, the emptiness you feel when you wake up in the morning might not even be attached to finding a serious relationship. How crazy would it be if you figured out your temporary emptiness was being caused by something else, and then that's when you meet her? I have a feeling she will find you before you find her anyway. Life usually works like that. I hope you realize that there is nothing wrong with you, your decisions pertaining to this subject, or wanting something different in your life. Tell all people who ask you questions or that try to question important personal decisions in your life to get a hobby. Good Luck. I wish you all the best.

PLEASE!!,...Don't punish yourself...God gave you a HEART for you to love others and to experience what really life is. Life is love. And I believe that a love that is being showned is better than a love being kept. You must open your heart again because there's no sense in closing it. You know what, bad experiences may cause us damage and heartaches ,but these will surely teach us lessons that will make us a better person.. :)