have you fallen in love just through text messaging?
By chiumee
@chiumee (850)
Philippines
September 14, 2010 1:47pm CST
sounds stupid but some people experience this thing. that suddenly they receive an anonymous text message (sms) and get to know with the sender. later on they tend to go on and like communicating each other. eventually they get attached to the other person. though they never met each other, they have this connection. but who could tell that one of them is just playing foolish games to anyone? have you?
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3 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Hi, chiumee. No. I have never fallen in love through a text message. I have fallen in love by hearing a guy's voice on the telephone. That is how me and my ex boyfriend met once. It is possible to fall in love through a text message. What the person writes to you is alluring and captivating. It can spark flames just by reading a message from a text.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 Sep 10
aww cream so cute^^ you fell in love listening his voice ahah this happened with me too^^ when i talked with this guy online and he sang to me all the time^^ i really felt so happy^^ he was so funny and singing to me always^^ even in front of his clients bcs he works in a netcafe ahah^^ but then he changed :( we argue a lot and he always turnt his back to me :( but i have sweet memories^^
@chiumee (850)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
hi there cream and sweetlove, listening to one's voice is another thing. of course we can be caught by the sound as if it is more sincere. most of the time, reading messages can impose different meanings depending on the way a person reads it. a message can be read as if in a loud voice, shouting, or sounding like making a joke, or maybe trying to fool an innocent child. but with a voice over a telephone, this is already directly said in the right manner the other person wants to convey his messages. so it's even more captivating. thanks for your shares.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 Sep 10
through text messages i never did :) but online yes^^ i fell in love online and yes you are right is very hard to know if the person is serious or just playing^^ i know this bcs there was this guy i liked online. all day he was online waiting me, even sometimes instead of be near his family was with me talking and talking, really talk with mic and seeing each other. i really felt he really loved me and i was so happy when we talked^^ but then i found out that he was always flirting with other girls and i guess he is married bcs there was a girl when we started to talk that offended me saying she was his wife.
and i asked him and he said she was his sister and she even talked with me and said she was his sister but that bcs didnt know if i was serious with her brother or not she did that. i thought was strange but i trusted him bcs he always said he loves me even in front of her so if she was his wife she wouldnt like i guess. but then i saw in his and her facebook him commenting my baby or something to her. so i guess they were really right about her being his wife. i would never guess that if i didnt see him flirting with many girls that he didnt love me bcs he really spent almost his all day talking only with me. really many hours.even with his daughter i talked. he said he had a daughter from an ex gf. his "sister" even showed me pics of him with that girl for me to believe she was only his sister. i dont know what is their idea really. this seems a bit a horror movie right?very crazy story :(
i just dont understand and im happy that i forgot about him bcs it is a very confusing story. anyway you are right is a bit dangerous to like someone we didnt meet near. this guy hurt me bcs i really was loving him already. but there are good people online like me i wasnt playing with him^^ so dont be scared with my story ok?^^ i just want that people have real proves if they date someone online, that that person really loves them^^
@chiumee (850)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
before your post, cream noted about phone call and now, you even have a closer look at the other guy. that's even more believing that the guy is truly showing you his love or affection. it's even more obvious to have you fallen in love because you are seeing each other on cam. sure it was a bad feeling after all those efforts and time and love you showed him. but don't worry, he will get his fare share at the right time. he doesn't deserve to be loved i guess. just enjoy mylotting. thanks for sharing.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
14 Sep 10
I don't think I can be in love with somebody throuh text messaging. The people who text message others randomly or strangely are people who have mental problems. I don't think anybody will be able to win love through those text messages. I extremely hate people who send anonymus messages. I never entertain them. Once one person kept texting me and I sent him a message saying that I will report to polic if the person disturb be anymore.
@chiumee (850)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
it's good your texter stopped when you scared him. maybe he believes the effectiveness of your police in tracing him and he didn't want to get in any more trouble. indeed he has some mental issues maybe permanently or just during that time. lol. thanks for your comment.