Dreamns about my ex
By archon309
@archon309 (404)
Philippines
September 14, 2010 4:21pm CST
I have a steady girlfriend for over two years now and I am quite happy with our relationship. However, I had been having recurring dreams about my ex-girlfriend whom I seldom see for years. In my dreams, it seems that me and my ex were together again. There was even a dream that I kissed her again.
Should I talk to my ex? Should I tell my current gf about this?
7 responses
@vrosado845 (82)
• United States
24 Sep 10
Umm...no! Dont tell your current girlfriend about these dreams. Remember that they are just dreams. They are not real. They're just subconscious thoughts that turn to pictures in your mind while you sleep, nothing else. No girl would like to hear that their boyfriend is having romantic dreams with his ex. I'm sure you're not gonna be having these dreams forever so don't worry about them.
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@archon309 (404)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
hmmm... I do hope you are right... thanks...
and welcome to mylot.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
15 Sep 10
yes you should talk with your gf^^ bcs even you say you are quite happy with her maybe you dont love her as much as you loved your ex^^ but there is one thing if you talk with her ex after talk with your gf see if she has someone already. you said that you are with this new girl since two years now so maybe your ex found someone by now. anyway talk with your gf about those dreams^^ bcs in a relation we have to be honest and talk with your ex to see if you still feel something when you talk with each other. if after you talk, you feel nothing it just means that maybe your relationship with your new gf is not working so well and thats why you dreamt with your ex bcs that time maybe you were very happy and you miss that^^ and not bcs you still have feelings for her. maybe is just the happiness you had that you miss. so to find out if you still love her talk with her and see how you feel^^ wish my advises helped you^^
@archon309 (404)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Well... asking questions is one way to become wise. :). I quite agree on the honesty part in a relationship. And to be honest my tongue still get twisted every I see my ex. Not that we are dating again, there are just times that our path crosses.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
I you should tell you current girl about your dreams. So you won't feel guilty about that. And i think your gf will appreciate you for being honest and trusting her. I was just wandering, do you still thinking about your ex? So that's why your having a dream of her.
@archon309 (404)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
some of the dreams come when I haven't been thinking ng about her. One thing I'm starting to realize now is one or two of those dreams have somehow came true in one way or another.
@joddie (173)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
I think you don't need to tell it to your current gf. This might cause some trouble in your relationship. If i'm in your current gf's shoes, i would be jealous of your ex. If you keep on dreaming of her with no apparent reason, and you didn't even thinking of her, your subconscious is still longing on her. Maybe there's no closure yet in your relationship. It's up to you whether you will talk to your ex. But be ready of yourself. Once you talk to her, be sure to settle everything so that once and for all, you'll have peace of mind and your relationship with your present gf will not be in jeopardy.
@archon309 (404)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I don't... when I have been having those dreams, I haven't been thinking of my ex... I haven't seen her during those times...
on the other hand.. it seems that it's my past that came following me... one thing that bothers me is... at least one of those dreams happened already... a long time after I had the dream...