cheating spouses

Hmmmm.., I guess for a person as observant as I am.., I would really notice any little changes in my partner's behavior and the way he treats me.., I don't want to sound so paranoid yet.., I was brought up with such sharp sense when it comes to being betrayed.., I guess I will feel it..=)

I haven't experienced being betrayed by my husband yet. I hope he doesn't do that. But I guess you will know if he's seeing someone because you'll have that gut feeling (intuition) that's telling you something is wrong. This also comes with a basis like, he's not doing things he used to do to you. He has somewhat change. He doesn't open up anymore. He goes home late, makes excuses not to make love with you, makes excuses that he's busy with work, goes often on a business trip and he don't have time for family gatherings anymore, etc. I guess that's some of the tell tale signs.

I would of thought you would be able to tell from the way they act as i'm sure there will be some differences from their usual self. I bet its not always that easy though because there will be exceptions where its hard to tell.

Of course I'll confront him and will talk seriously about the matter, but one thing I won't do, to drive him out of the house. I won't give the other party reason that would justify their wrongdoing.

It breaks my whole life:( Not just once! So i decided to go on with my life without him..At first i thought i could never live normally without him.But now i am happy and so much inlove with my kids,and with a new partner that i know he will never break my heart again.God is good,he will always give the BEST!

Break up because the relationship is already no good. At least my conscience is clear because I was not the one who cheated. It will hurt though but what can we do specially when you spouse is caught red handed.

Hey i think i am not think this.. that my love loving someone else.. because i am believe on my love.. and i love her truly.. so i never think this.. that she love someone else.. because trust is a very big thing.. and you should be trust on your love..

This is so painful and certainly know first hand. I do not know if I can say it was loving another person but it certainly was a betrayal for me. As my ex-husband could keep his pants on as lust over took his will-power. It is very sad to be in this type of situation especially when it is not deserved. Fortunately for me I finally woke up and he now is history.