Hates being pregnant
By offkey
@offkey (313)
United States
September 15, 2010 1:05am CST
One of my friends from High School is nearly six (6) months pregnant and she is already saying that she "is so done with being pregnant" this really hurts my feelings, (my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for nearly four years with no luck.) I know that pregnancy is really hard on a woman's body and many women have a difficult time with it, emotionally and physically, she hasn't mentioned anything about having a hard time with being pregnant, she just says that she "is done with being pregnant." Doesn't she know how luck she is? I'm sure she does, and I want to be happy for her and I am it's just I am having a hard time with her saying that.
We really aren't that close so me telling her my feelings is out of the question, and I don't think that would be right anyway. I just feel that some people really don't know how lucky they really are and how many women would love to be in their position.
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4 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
15 Sep 10
I hope that you will soon get a positive pregnancy test result and that you will have a happy and healthy pregnancy. In life it can be quite unfair that some ladies have a hard time getting pregnant and some of those on birth control end up getting pregnant. Some pregnant ladies love being pregnant and every stage of it is special for her. Others have a challenging time in pregnancy for example I heard about one lady that suffered severe sickness. In late pregnancy a lady can feel rather uncomfortable. She looks forward to her baby being born. It is a shame your friend says she is "done with being pregnant". She doesn't know how lucky she is and maybe when her baby is born she will appreciate having her little boy or little girl. Once again I wish that you will soon get pregnant. When trying to get pregnant relaxation is the key but trying again and again without luck can be stressful. Good luck.
@offkey (313)
• United States
16 Sep 10
Thank you for your sincere words. I know that it will happen in due time, it is just hard. Maybe she is just having a hard time with it in someway and she hasn't expressed it, it just makes me sad to hear lose words from someone who is lucky enough to become a mom.
@ankster (273)
• India
15 Sep 10
I and my hubby are married for two years and we do not want baby now.I have seen in my family to my sisters that how hard it is to get pregnant and deliver baby.My many of the cousin sisters had complications regarding delivery of a baby and getting conceived but still I feel I need more time to think for a baby planning and Iam not mentally prepared right now.
@pjnjclyn (176)
• Newton, New Jersey
2 Nov 10
My husband and I have been trying about 7 years now and I know that is jsut so upsetting when women do realize how very lucky they are. I agree there are many that would love to be where she is. It breaks you heart. Some people just do not think before they speak. Good luck on your journey
@meesaradee (28)
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5 Nov 10
if some day i get married ,and some day i know that i being discussion i think that is a good news for me,and then i think in that time i'll happy all times:)
