Are you sexy?

Each person defines sexy differently. Sexy is merely a feeling not how a person looks. The ugliest and most unattractive person can be reawaken by a steamy sweet shower, putting on nice clean and or new clothes. I define sexy as a sense of feeling. Sense of smell, I cannot even begin to tell you how the perfect male cologne could absolutely make me feel that the male is the sexiest thing alive. It dares to challenge my inquisitive nature with a new idea. It turns me on, turns me about and turns my world upside down. Having said all that it is a feeling not an appearance. Great looks, nice clothes and all the money in the world would not give me the sense of sexy. what makes you sexy? Back to you question. Although I feel I am sexy in the possible sense of the world, it is my good looks, good and sweet nature and outlook in life that make me oh so sexy!

I think it's hard to feel sexy when you are uncomfortable in your own clothing. You can have all of those other traits, but unless you feel sexy on the outside I don't think you can feel or be sexy. Those other traits are more attributable to inner beauty than to sexiness in my opinion. My body is not in very good shape. I am frustrated and uncomfortable with myself. I don't have a gorgeous face but perhaps "cute". But I do feel I have a beauty about me. I have two teenage daughters (14 and 17) and I shake my head at how sexy I think they are. Keep in mind they are teenagers and can be downright nasty at times but they are pretty dang sexy physically. I think sexy is more of a physical thing, but beauty comes from within.

it all depends Sankar...if you are and if the person in front of you can't understand it...or he is not so romantic...then you will not feel yourself sexy...according to me...it comes out by the act of both and depends upon how compatible are both to each other...these are my views

Hi vijayan, You said it being sexy is not at all about appearances.i have seen the most glamorous and " supposedly" sexy people falling flat on their face after they open their mouth and start speaking and at the same time there are people who look very ordinary and may not be greatly glamorous, but because of their personality and the way they carry themselves and communicate have a great appeal which is sexy if the term can be used...all the best and happy mylotting

I don't know. You tell me

Nope, not at all, sweetie. I'm normal in everything i do and i am normal looking. TATA.

Hi vijayanths, I always try my best to keep my appearance to look decent, fit and healthy. I maintain this by having regular physical exercise, drinking enough amount of water and eating nutritious food daily. I take showers and put on clean clothes to keep myself fresh and hygienic. Brushing teeth at least twice to avoid having bad breathe. Acquire more latest info by reading latest news and knowledge. But still couldn't judge myself whether I'm sexy or not I think it's nice and fair to judge by people around like loved ones and friends and colleagues whether I'm a genuine sexy person. Thanks for starting this interesting topic to let me having fun expressing my feeling here Happy posting and have a nice day

Sexiness, to me, is about self confidence and someone's ability to make me laugh. That silly half-grin, the way they smile that reaches their eyes....I've been attracted to men who don't have that perfect body, but hey, I no longer have mine! Being comfortable naked with the lights on is MUCH sexier than hidden by the cover of night!

(smiling) If you asked me earlier i would say no. But now? All I can say is my guy says I'm sexy. ( blushing).

hello dear anna, Yes,i am sexy in my own way Whoever says i am not ?

I am sexy in my own right, dear.LOL Given all those qualities that you've mentioned then, I can honestly say that I am qualified to be considered as sexy.:) The very first thing that caught my husband's attention was the way I am communicating with him. I wasn't flirting but I don't mind telling my thoughts and feelings. I was that liberated but I'm not lewd, either.:) Physically, I'm not that gifted with voluptuous body because I don't have the butt thing.:) My husband thought that I am too skinny. He prefers chubby women.:( But I am sexy. I can speak my mind without doubt, I can make you feel giddy if I want, and I have something to offer, too.:) Sigh... Am I making sense here, dear? :)

Hi anna, how are you? I can't say i am perfect in something, but always try to learn and to be good at something or the other. Regarding dress, i like to be simple Indian girl, but sometimes i will be according to my husband choice wearing jeans and skirts. Keeping Clean, neat and hygienic house / myself is one of my hobby. About sexy, attractive appearance or my good qualities you must ask my husband lol.. Have a nice day anna.

Ouppssssss..........I never considered my self as sexy. I can't think of man being sexy, I think the word should be used for man is COOL. I think that the word SEXY should be used for women. Well, that might be my folly......

Oh, I am sexy as hell, at least in my mind. I have nothing to offer physically.

i think I am even if I do not have that model looking body. I think I am and I believe other people say because my body is curvy. :)

I can honestly admit that I am way out in physical appearance from neck down. I have no way of controlling my fast increasing weight. No thanks to aging. But when others can parade in nice clothings draped in their sexy bodies, they might not be able to outwit my communication skills. I can brag about how I can mesmerized people with my overly friendly nature and long talks are my special asset. I was told that my expressive actions when talking is what magnetize people to me.

Being sexy is a package of different qualities as you say. Some people are naturally sexy and the fact that they may not be aware of the fact is what makes them even more appealing. I asked my husband if he thought I was sexy and, being the smart man that he is, he answered with an affirmative (LOL)! As to whether I feel I am sexy, it depends on the day; today not so much, I have a rotten cold and I haven’t even done my hair so if hubby says I look sexy today I know he is just being kind!

I am sexy, because I am Chysom. I am sexy because I refuse to be anything except Chysom, I am unique, savvy, suave, and mysterious, and thus I am sexy!!

I have never really thought of myself as being sexy. I have not always been comfortable with my appearance. If being sexy is a state of mind, then i guess i still have a chance.

Hey you are right.. it is not only just attractive appearance.. talents communications skills, knowledge are also makes a person sexy.. but i think i am not sexy.. because i am try to grow up my skills and knowledge which make me sexy..