what makes a person attractive

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I think it is the inner self. Long after the good looks have faded, what really remains is the inner self of a person and that's what really lasts and counts. Of course, looks contribute to the attractiveness of the total person. That's pretty obvious. But soon you'll realize that you're not as nice as you once looked. To me, what really makes person attractive is his philosophy, his values, his orientation, his principles, the way he deals with and handles people. That's tantamount to a reassessment of the kind of person one really is. I'm not saying though that I don't get attracted to cute guys. I do. But again, once you get to know a person more, you somehow begin to look at his total being. There are a lot of not-so-cute guys who can amaze you with the way they talk, the way they steer a conversation, the way they fix themselves.