The nature that you don't like about yourself

Thanks for your sweet and motivating comment. I realize that it is the company of people who love you and stand by you when you are down that actually helps more than medicines and other things. Regards, Sids

Hi dear, Nicely worded about yourself. If we think that way, we never can come out from such thinking’s. As a whole, even I am also like you only. When you talked about you, even I think I am also like that and more or less the same. I got the feeling of shyness and at many occasions I prefer to be alone and like to be separated from the crowed or gathering. May be it is a problem for facing people. I have caught on this issue when I attended for a seminar and this topic come as a discussion issue. However, I managed situation very painfully. Thank you for your comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, I am also exactly like you only but I like my simplicity and my character. Only one issue is that people would take advantage of the same. Many occasions it has been observed and I realized the impact. But, being good and simple to others make me more happy and I enjoy it. At several times I thought of the same that it is not good for me, however, being little rough and arrogant is not my real nature. As much I try to do so, I cannot be like that for a long period. So, I prefer to be what I am and with a slight modifications, I used to manage. But those who know me better loves me so much that they know how I am and how good my nature is. Thank you so much for comments and response. Best regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Such things are not ready made. The situations really rag us into it. We may be good with things, but all of a sudden, something unpleasant happens, we react to it. How bad is the situation, we will react accordingly. If a mobile is fell down from the hand and absolutely because of care lessens, and if it got damaged, we will get violent and angry we know that it is absolutely with the other person’s carelessness and we find fault with his absent mindedness. Not to the person. The situation arises like that. Once the problem is settled, we will become normal. The thing is that, we will react as long as we are having feelings. It is genuine and we will do it. But how we manage such situation is important. We have certain principle in our life, and if something found against that, we will get irritated. But confront such situations with an easy going and understanding pattern will make us more sensible and cultured. However, thank you so much for comments and response. Best regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Yes. Boring. It is a typical nature and I think not much has been talked about it. What to do if we got bored of something. Of course, divert into something else. The abundance around us is one of the major reason. Many are happy and satisfied. But still, wanting for something else. But the sarcastic nature can be moderately managed by turning them into a fun filled joke. Always try to sarcastic approach to a fun topic then you won’t’ feel that much pinch from such acts. I cannot say it is so good, but if you try, you can resolve these two characters to be polished and make more friendly to you. However, thanks for your comments and best regards. Thank-s

Hi dear, I think you are angry to write also. Be relaxed. It is a human nature and we can control it by various ways. Have a light approach on such situations. For many, it is not possible at all. But a constant try and effort, we can manage it. After all, it is anger – everyone has that nature. But control with logical reasons and self control is the only way to come out of it. My next query itself is a continuation to this query only. What is your immediate feeling, when we get angry? Do you use bad words and all? Do you? However, thanks for your comments and best regards. Thank-s

Hi dear, I think we do not need to change anything. Because we can’t change our nature immediately. This we acquired in a gradual process and many things we got hereditary. A change is impossible and not even required. Just observe how we are and try to modify it. Slight changes here and there can solve the issues. Like how we change the furniture at home. There are people frequently rearrange the things in different places and positions. Why, the things are the same but when it placed in an another way, sometimes we like it more. And after some time again we will rearrange it with a different angle. So, this we can do. This is not so noticeable, but effective and practical also. Just for a change, try something differently and I think it will work out. But your entire cooperation is required and can be continuous effort will give you results. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, I heard it earlier also. When we analyze this issue, there is nothing in it. But simply scared of things. A child at my home was so scared of lizards and cockroaches till her age of 11. Now she is 13 and she is telling that now, I am no so scared of these things. Why. She improved and she started thinking about it. So, if we think about such things, without telling anybody, we will get the answer, why? So try to get rid of such things and try to do the best to how you can come out of such things. The best way is that, catch someone you trust and tell them about it. If you both try to resolve it, of course you can slowly reduce the fear and gradually you will be alright. Thanks for your comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Upto certain level, we both have the same issue. I am also somewhat like you only. At times of sensitive, I cannot take decisions and so silly on certain matters. All of us have such characteristics. The best thing is that identify those nature and try to improve from them. It will happen only very slowly only. But we can improve very much if we try. However, as it is our basic nature, the root level mind work will be alongwith us. But shape it well so that we can control it. Wish you all the best & have a nice day. Thank you for the comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Things are taking into hands. That is a special characteristic nature. By experience we can overcome all such situations and survive silly things easily. I appreciate our patience and calmness which will help tolerance and a mature state of living and which indirectly provide a lot of mental peace. Thank you for your comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Getting angry is everyone’s issue. Sometimes we may too angry with things and out of control. At certain times it is difficult to face such situations. The reasons may be many and the reaction will be the only one, the anger. So, depending on the nature of the situation, we have to face it. The best way out is, just relax and face the after consequences. As a psychological fact, we must react on the incident otherwise we will get mentally disturbed. Also, we cannot avoid such situations if it is directly affecting us. As the cause of the anger we cannot foresee, as you said, approach a cool mentality towards is the best solution for it. Thank you for your comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Why is so? I don’t even understand why she treat you so badly. Have some good time and talk openly and frankly. If you have problems, try to come out of it, and if she find you need to improve, ask her the way how she is expecting. An open discussion can improve a lot. Also, I felt bad on reading your words and it didn’t look good the way she treats you. Try to love and understand each other which is the most success driving for a couple to understand. This is not a life of a day or two. Years to survive and how long you can suffer such things. Find a better way out and resolve all. Best regards and best of luck. Thank-s