how to create lasting change ?
By vito787
@vito787 (54)
United States
September 15, 2010 6:41pm CST
For changes to be of any true value, they've got to be lasting and consistent. We've all experienced change for a moment, only to feel let down and disappointed in the end. In fact, many people attempt change with a sense of fear and dread because unconsciously they believe the changes will only be temporary. A prime example of this is someone who needs to begin dieting, but finds himself putting it off, primarily because he unconsciously knows that whatever pain he endures in order to create the change will bring him only a short-term reward. For most of my life I've pursued what I consider to be the organizing principles of lasting change, and you'll learn many of these and how to utilize them in the pages that follow. But for now, I'd like to share with you three elementary principles of change that you and I can use immediately to change our lives. While these principles are simple, they are also extremely powerful when they are skillfully applied. These are the exact same changes that an individual must make in order to create personal change, that a company must make in order to maximize its potential, and that a country must make in order to carve out its place in the world. In fact, as a world community these are the changes that we all must make to preserve the quality of life around the globe.
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@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
It seems there are certain things in self that we can change permanently, while there are certain things that we can not change at all.
Perhaps in between, there are gray areas of changes that may be temporary.
Perhaps the key is to internalize the reason for the change. If I force my self to be a businessman, creating monetary profit, when my nature actually does not care for monetary gain, then perhaps changing to seek monetary profits will not work.
Perhaps it so much about what we really are and what we long for deep inside...the self
What do you think ?