which way you choose"stay the one who love you or comeback to the one you love?
By Cherwin2010
@Cherwin2010 (878)
Philippines
September 15, 2010 9:46pm CST
we all know that love hurt's..there are no exception when we start to love then we are ready to get hurt..whether you have a good relationship or not but still we got hurt's. other say's if you love someone set it free, if he/she back then he/she is yours..but other also says if you really love someone fight it in the name of love..now i ask you guys..if you were in this situation, which way you choose?
7 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
16 Sep 10
It all depends on what exactly the situation is, sweetie.
You can be loved and really won't give that up.
Or you can love and really get hurt.
If someone doesn't really love you, let it go.
Don't let anyone hurt you.
Don't give them that chance at all.
They will do it again.
I don't believe that you can set someone free and when they come back, you just go on again.
Doesn't make sense to me.
Why did that person leave in the first place?
Second time won't make a difference.
This is something each of us have to decide for ourselves as no one on this planet cam love or feel the same as the next person.
I for one won't come near a person who hurt me and i never give second chances.
TATA.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
as long as can do..i will do it for love..even when it time come that it requires my life for sake of my love-one i will..you know Sap, it is a matter of choice where you will be comfortable with and where will be happy and satisfy..for me i offer my life to the one i love..and i die for it in the name of love..no matter what..i don't know what we call this if it is true love or marter, but this is what i have when i fall in love..i offer my heart to him even my life to make him happy i will..
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
i understand exactly what you mean Sap. but sometimes thier is a time happened that we don't think it came to us..sometimes it test us between our faith and love..and we cannot escape it from a situation to choose whether we like it or not we have to choose between happiness and sacrifices..sometimes love required sacrifices..and that is true love..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
well when i don't love someone anymore, i do not stay with this person. i guess when i leave a person even if he still loves me, i would already not be loving him. same to my situations and i guess with this... i shall always choose to be with someone i love. and will not give a chance to be away with him for as long as i still love this person.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
if you love someone we give what all he/she want for his/her happiness..it doesn't matter for our own happiness because when we saw our love-one is happy then we will be happy too..that is love..sometimes it requires sacrifices, to test us how really deep is our love and how it will be too strong...
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 10
If I have to blindly follow my heart to go to the person that I love but doesn't love me I will end up a love pauper. But if I stay with the one that love me but I don't love then I will live a miserable life for the rest of my life. There must be a two way traffic to live happily in a relationship.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
its a matter of choice honey..sometimes other people choose to be hurt in order to leave..it doesn't matter to them if they have a miserable life, what is important to them is the happiness of their love one..but other choose to be free of hurt-ached even the result of this is to be away of their lover..
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Your listening to all those music made you think of this my friend, hahahahaha!!!! Good discussion huh???? Oh, should I rethink this over and over again, ummmmmm, I would gonna choose to stay to the one who love me, yes, and I know, I love that person too!!!! It is very rewarding to think that there is someone who loves you that much, and it is up to you to reflect on it at the end of the day, whether to just ignore it OR make yourselves more deserving with that love...
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
to know a person who really love you is quite good..at least you know that there is someone who love you truly, whom you know that it cannot make you cry nor to hurt you either..at least you know who is that person is worthy for your love..and if that person will love you so much, then she deserved for your love..
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Sep 10
Cherwin I would choose the one whom I love and know that he
really does love me.I would never put my self in the situaton
of having two men. one who loves me, and one whom I love but
seems to hate my guts.lol
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
love is like a game..sometimes you loose sometimes you win..other believed in destiny..if you are destined to hurt so be it. but if you hold a good card and you still have a chance to win why not fight for it!..love and hurt-ached are stick together..whether you win or loose but still you'll be hurt as long as you have love..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
18 Sep 10
if you love that guy fight for him^^ you have nothing to lose and at least you wont regret later^^ trust me^^ if you dont do nothing you will always think what you could had done to be with him^^ if you risk at least you know you are doing your best for love him^^ but if you try and try hard care much and he doesnt care back after awhile just forget him^^ first fight for some time^^ but if he doesnt appreciate what you do forget^^ it just means he is not your right guy and you will find right guy soon^^ we must never waste time with guys that doesnt worth it. its their loss not ours^^
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
i agree with you sweetlove..your right! sometimes we learn to fight for love so we can know if this love are really meant to be yours..but if you have done anything but yet still not work then leave it and find another one who is really deserving..
@brean_rhea (176)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
if i were in this situation, i would rather stay on yhe on who love me...because thats for sure he wont hurt me for he loves me that much, because unlike you will choose to the one you love, there is a tendency for you to be a martyr lover...so i rather stay on the one who love me....because i have an assurance....
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
what a tough answer..much better to stay to person who really love you than to the one you love but he doesn't love you ether..at least we can experience how to feel when there is someone who feel us that we are important to them..anyway love can be teachable..are agree with this? develop much deeper than love..
