Will You Ever Stay On a Bad Relationship If the DEED is too good?

United States
September 15, 2010 11:32pm CST
Quite honestly this question will go either way, Have you stayed on a bad relationship because the DEED was so good or have you ever leave a good relationship because the DEED was terrible? Well I hope some or all answer to gauge on how your level of your relationship or your way of thinking how your relationship differs or how you value the DEED.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Hmmm! This topic made me think for a moment and recalling my past relationships........As I am recalling the days, I cannot think of that moment that I had to stay in the relationship just because of the DEED. Besides, if I thought it was just Lust alone, I would never commit. I want a relationship that has love and not just because of the good DEED alone. So far, I never had experienced a bad deed with my past. If ever there was, I think i left the relationship not because of the bad or unsatisfying deed, rather because there is no love at all.
• United States
16 Sep 10
Hmmm quite expected answer coming from a Pinay Mylotter but its very nice to know that someone like you still prevails love over the DEED.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Because I can determine the difference...If it is pure lust, then I won't commit. I do not deny also that I have been into flings..I guess, if you are really serious in a relationship and you love the person you are with, I think, you can work out the deed. I mean, you can improve it...It is the love that is controlling.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 10
"Well I hope some or all answer to gauge on how your level of your relationship or your way of thinking how your relationship differs or how you value the DEED". Are you a psychologist trying to read us on our way of thinking? Then have this: I stayed in a bad relationship before, because the guy was rich. I stayed in a good relationship before even though the guy could only give me a bundle of edelweiss flowers for my birthday.
• United States
16 Sep 10
Well I wish I was but I never I am and will never be... Just wanted to know the peoples opinions just like others.
• United States
16 Sep 10
I have put up with someone because they were good at certain things but then I grew up and learned better...I stayed around thinking they would improve as a man but then during the waiting the greatness of the deed or abilites took a major hit and started to get worse..so I ended up having to leave the person...
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
wow! It's a good call for everyone. Well, I couldn't tell at the moment. I value deeds of love and love as well. I value relationship. I am in a good relationship right now and I loved to stay here.
• Portugal
18 Sep 10
i dont care for money at all^^ if i dont like the guy anymore will just leave him^^ money is not everything. love is everything^^ even if we have money probs we can fix^^ with our love besides us^^ but without love what money matters? only sleep with someone bcs we have money? sorry but thats too bad. we only want that person bcs money. not bcs we love. life is too short to waste it with lies and pretending. we must dedicate to love^^ if we have love all will come after^^